There is this girl that I really liked, I tried chatting to her a bit, I was gonna make a move then I found out she likes my friend. I still tried speaking to her a few times since I didn't believe she actually liked my friend, but then I found out for sure she does like him, so I've almost completely given up now.
The thing is, my friend only wants to use her to get blowjobs. He's already started flirting with her and it seems he already has her in the palm of his hands. He's been betting with other friends about whether he will manage to get her to give him head by a certain time and are always joking about it. He plans flirting with her, then get her to give him head, then completely blank her after that.
It has nothing to do with me, but I can't help but get really stressed out and angry about this. I've been trying to move on and forget about her, but I'm not gonna lie, I still like her. She's one of those really shy, insecure girls who's almost certainly never done anything sexual with anyone before. I find it disgusting how he's just using her like this.
But what pisses me off is how stupid and naive she is! My friend is probably the biggest pervert in the school, anyone with a brain can see that he is only after one thing! But she can't seem to see this! He is constantly talking about porn and about wanting to have sex with certain girls. I thought she was smart and could easily see that he is just using her and is only after one thing! They even wisper about it in lessons and laugh when ever he goes to talk to her, But she seems completely oblivious!!! I don't know how it's possible and it's really stressing me out.
I've been telling myself that it's her problem and that I shouldn't even get myself stressed up about it since it has nothing to do with me. But when ever I see my friends laughing about it in class I can't help but feel stressed out.
All I can do is hope she isn't stupid enough to fall into his trap, if she turns out to be really stupid and ends up giving him a blow job like he wants then that's it, even if she suddenly decides she likes me, I don't think I'll be interested anymore, she'll be damaged goods, my opinion of her has dropped, I hope it doesn't have to drop anymore...
I have no reason to care about what happens to her...but I do... Watch
- Thread Starter
- 21-01-2010 20:26
- Thread Starter
- 21-01-2010 23:00
- 22-01-2010 00:29
I was all sympathetic till I read the 'damaged goods' bit....
Why not send her an anonymous letter alerting her to the dangers ahead!
- 22-01-2010 00:42
when you become an alpha male you'll understand
I'm sure she has friends advising here on best course of action etc...
If she still decides to go ahead then it's her decision... don't be a c*ck-block...
if you ever get the chance you might give a helpful suggestion to her but it's none of your business really (just like you said), she's capable of making her own mistakes, and it mightn't even be a 'mistake' in her opinion...
she might, she just might want to experience oral sex and since you're friend is 'man enough' to provide it to her, she wants to try it out... shy girls having a sexual appetitive? I know, Ludicrous!
I'm sorry that the girl you liked has gone for your mate, but don't be a c*ck-block, take it on the chin (I know someone will be ), man up and move on
- 22-01-2010 00:45
tell her now..and if she realises she can give you the BJ instead and be YOUR damaged goods
- 22-01-2010 00:46
Don't try and act the gent then refer to a girl as "damaged goods", prick.
- CV Helper
- 22-01-2010 00:49
Tell her what he's up to then leave her well alone. Damaged goods?? You're not gonna have much luck in life if a girl doing anything sexual instantly deems them damaged goods...
- 22-01-2010 00:53
it sounds like jealousy to me, it seems to be the way you would act about someone you cared, but you can't 'care' for her as such because you don't really know her..
..But yeah that's why i suggest to you that you are jealous..you feel slightly bitter about the fact that she chose the 'man-****' who will treat her horribly over you, someone who may not of just wanted her for his sexual needs. i can tell there is jealousy in there because of the way you have just switched on a girl you liked! You seem very evil towards her...i think the best man won and 'shy' girls aren't always as shy as you think..maybe she wants to sleep with him???
As said, the best man won and i don't think you should worry about them too as much as you have been..
OH AND SOOOOO aLL GIRLS THAT HAVE HAD SOME KIND OF SEXUAL RELATION WITH ANOTHER MALE IS DAMAGED GOODS???
I don't think so, pal...