i've been with my boyfriend for five months and we have a really happy relationship. i would like to make it clear that i know he loves me and i that i trust him 100%.
however, there's this girl that he lives with (along with other people) who he's known for over a year now and he plans to live with her and two more people next year too. she's a lovely girl and i actually really like her. she is obviously one of his best friends. but i really get the feeling that she fancies him. he has a lot of close female friends so i'm not just being paranoid. i don't feel like this about any of the others, just her.
i'm not sure why i think this and it's not a massive problem. even if she does fancy him i don't think she'd do anything about it and i know he wouldn't reciprocate. but it just bothers me a little and makes me kind of uncomfortable. especially as i think it comes down to more than just a little crush as she's known him for a long time. i know i'm not just being paranoid so please don't tell me i am because i am a girl and i know how girls act around guys they like.
i'd just like a little help on dealing with the small elements of jealousy and doubt it's causing me. how to keep on being her friend when i know she probably secretly hates me.
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