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Not Being Able to Contact Someone You Fancy

OK, theres this really gorgeous guy at work and I want to speak to him, outside of work but he's moving to France on Sunday- I sort of dont care and just want to speak to him...(know it's pointless but I just do...)
I won't be on shift with him again now but I know somebody knows him and his details...
Is there any way of contacting him without looking like a complete stalker...? :frown:
Reply 1
Ask for the details? :dontknow:
Reply 2
nige
Ask for the details? :dontknow:

Well I won't see him in person again but my friend has the details but if i just texted him i'd look like a bit of a stalker... :frown:
Reply 3
No Just text him saying that you wanted to say goodbye and give your email addy in the text not stalkerish at all.
Reply 4
You seem to have a funny idea of stalking, just asking for someone's number from a friend sounds nothing like stalking to me, it's just that you should have got the details yourself. It's the next best thing, and isn't stalking. :dontknow:
Reply 5
ahh lucky guy. I d love to get girls texting me. At the moment it is in reverse.lol. And i m not even getting replies.lol.
Reply 6
IZZY!
ahh lucky guy. I d love to get girls texting me. At the moment it is in reverse.lol. And i m not even getting replies.lol.

If you've sent a text asking why they didn't reply to your other text... that's not good.
Reply 7
nige
If you've sent a text asking why they didn't reply to your other text... that's not good.

i dunno. i got a number of the girl i fancy from her mate. I texted this girl and got a reply that she doesnt know me and doesnt know what i m talking about.however then again, i asked her mate to give me this girls number again.her mate gave me the number again and it had 33 instead of 56 in the end. It is either me who mistyped or it is that her mate just doesnt want to give me her mates number. Her mate is a very good friend of mine so i dont think she d lie. Probably i mistyped.Now that i have hopefully a correct number i should send a text, but always keep forgetting.lol.
Reply 8
IZZY!
i dunno. i got a number of the girl i fancy from her mate. I texted this girl and got a reply that she doesnt know me and doesnt know what i m talking about.however then again, i asked her mate to give me this girls number again.her mate gave me the number again and it had 33 instead of 56 in the end. It is either me who mistyped or it is that her mate just doesnt want to give me her mates number. Her mate is a very good friend of mine so i dont think she d lie. Probably i mistyped.Now that i have hopefully a correct number i should send a text, but always keep forgetting.lol.


dude, that has happened to me before. I dont think you should trust girls friends to give you the girl that you like's number. They simple wont.

in my case, i asked a girl if i can talk to her (dunno if that is wrong) but she asked her friend to come which made kinda uneasy at first. anyway i asked her for her number at the end, then she said oh i left my phone at home but ill give you my number from her friends phone. i typed it in correctly and left. I phoned her and got some other girl. haha. i was shocked and disappointed. i asked one of her friends for her number and she gives me this number from the top of her head and said it was right. I knew it was wrong cos i dont know anybody that knows all their friends number my heart. i phoned the number out of curiosity and love i think cos i did like her so much. Anyway the number did not exist. So i was like whatever and had to leave it. :mad: