pregnant?

just got some very bad news, a girl i met at a party a few weeks ago has been trying to phone me up, and just left a message to say she might be pregnant, she seemed very upset about it.
what should i do? she left a message on my voicemail so i could try to ignore it as she doesnt know where i live, or could phone her back and deny i ever slept with her as she was well pissed at the time?
cheers in advance

Reply 1

IZZY!

15

phone her back of course. you dont want a child stalking u in the future

Reply 2

Jayjayjay

1

She did say 'might' thus there is a possibility she may well not be. But call back and at least talk to her and find out whether she really is or not - or encourage her to double check etc.

Reply 3

Gem

14

You can't deny you never slept with her, that would be wrong :eek:

Plus if shse does have the baby, wouldn't you rather know about it now, than 18 years down the line?!

You have to be a man, don't let her go through this on her own! :smile:

Reply 4

viviki

14

Don't you dare deny you slept with her. If you slept with her without precautions then a call like this shouldnt be a big surprise. Grow up.

Reply 5

Saffie

11

Denying sleeping with her is absolutely immoral!! And if you don't care, don't you think you'll care if you have a kid that's yours raised by someone else? You have to face up to your responsibilities, if you're old enough to sleep with her you're old enough to accept that.

She might not be pregnant, she might want an abortion anyway (v likely), just admit you played some part in it! Shesh!

Reply 6

zhivago

2

just got some very bad news, a girl i met at a party a few weeks ago has been trying to phone me up, and just left a message to say she might be pregnant, she seemed very upset about it.
what should i do? she left a message on my voicemail so i could try to ignore it as she doesnt know where i live, or could phone her back and deny i ever slept with her as she was well pissed at the time?
cheers in advance

God, what a bastard! :eek:

Deny you ever slept with her?

And I'm not being funny, but if you weren't drunk, and she was, you probably shouldn't have slept with her at all! Taking advantage a bit!

Did you use protection? She may just be being paranoid. And anyway, all is not lost - she may not be preggers.

Either way, she's shown immense maturity and courage phoning you up - you certainly haven't, not as yet anyway.

It's as much your repsonsibility as it is hers. You got her pregnant after all (if she is!). Be a man, ring her back, and sort it out between yourselves - and don't push her into a decision!!

Reply 7

nige

I'm pretty sure this is a micky-take (like the now removed thread by another user) too. Maybe I have too high an opinion of humanity.

Reply 8

JoeCool_Lemming

Ring her and get her to take a test. If you're too much of a ****ing coward to face up the responsibilities of your actions THEN DON'T DO THE ****ING ACTIONS. Christ!!!!

Reply 9

richardAndr

OP

i doubt she will want an abortion as her parents are quite religious.
i agree it would be bad to not know if you had a kid or not, but its better than it screwing up the rest of my youth, that would be unfair considering its her fault as she didnt bring protection.

Reply 10

nige

Increasingly sure this is a micky-take. :p:

Reply 11

JoeCool_Lemming

nige

Increasingly sure this is a micky-take. :p:

It better be, I'm about to lose my temper quite badly.

Reply 12

JoeCool_Lemming

richardAndr

i doubt she will want an abortion as her parents are quite religious.
i agree it would be bad to not know if you had a kid or not, but its better than it screwing up the rest of my youth, that would be unfair considering its her fault as she didnt bring protection.

Listen - you have the penis, you wear the condom.

Reply 13

zhivago

2

i doubt she will want an abortion as her parents are quite religious.
i agree it would be bad to not know if you had a kid or not, but its better than it screwing up the rest of my youth, that would be unfair considering its her fault as she didnt bring protection.

You utter ****. It's HER fault? You shagged her when she was pissed! If it's anyone's fault, it's f*cking yours! ******. Why didn't you bring protection - you were obviously looking for it.

Increasingly sure this is a micky-take.

It better had be!! :wink:

Reply 14

richardAndr

OP

nige

Increasingly sure this is a micky-take. :p:

look just because you are probably a model student who doesnt make mistakes you cant say that any situation that u wouldnt get yourself into is a mickey take. if your not going to be helpful then shut up.

Reply 15

zhivago

2

Are you seriously blaming her? Honest question...

Reply 16

nige

JoeCool_Lemming

It better be, I'm about to lose my temper quite badly.

That would probably be the aim of the thread. :wink:

Reply 17

Saffie

11

richardAndr

look just because you are probably a model student who doesnt make mistakes you cant say that any situation that u wouldnt get yourself into is a mickey take. if your not going to be helpful then shut up.

If you're not willing to deal with the consequences of your actions, don't do the actions in the first place! :mad:

Reply 18

zhivago

2

That would probably be the aim of the thread.

Yeah, I see where you are coming from. It could be a wind-up, but he seems pretty, well, you know...

Reply 19

richardAndr

OP

zhivago

Are you seriously blaming her? Honest question...

its not totally her fault, as they say it takes two, but i wouldve assumed that if she was stupid enough to sleep with someone without protection then shed be on the pill. apprently not though, such a stupid person.

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