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Two Boys On The Go, But Which One Shall I Choose?
im stuck between 2 boys, i like them both and need to make up my mind! there both really sweet n would do anything for me, ive tried listing good and bad points about them both but there both equal! HELP!
if both hav good personalities; go for the buffer one 
if u dont like that idea; go for the one u think about first whenever there is a discussion about boyfriends.
if u dont like that idea; go for the one u think about first whenever there is a discussion about boyfriends.
carly01
im stuck between 2 boys, i like them both and need to make up my mind! there both really sweet n would do anything for me, ive tried listing good and bad points about them both but there both equal! HELP!
You have to choose one quickly. You're not in the worst position, just be brave and make a decision. Just be mature. The longer it lasts, the more difficulties and stress you'll have, and the greater chance there is you'll lose both.
nige
The one you like more. 
Don't pretend there isn't one, there is. You know it. The one you would be thinking about all the time if you went for the other one.
Don't pretend there isn't one, there is. You know it. The one you would be thinking about all the time if you went for the other one.
That is very much true (from experience) there is always one that you will be infatuated with more, no matter what you say. This is not about advantages or disadvantages of them like a top trumps list, it just won't work as you'[ll be contantly find ways of balancing out their traits (although I can't find myself guillty of having done that).
However, take the time you need, take too much and potentially lose both.
lol, I haven't amde it out to be nice thing, but when you do pick, it's worth it
good luck!do a test..
Sit down and talk to both them..
Whichever one can keep a good, interesting convo going for the longest without an awkward silence is probs the one for u..?
Thats what i would do.. go with the one u feel most comfortable chatting to
Good luck..
xxx
PS if that fails, do them both and see which one makes u *ahem* the fastest haha
Sit down and talk to both them..
Whichever one can keep a good, interesting convo going for the longest without an awkward silence is probs the one for u..?
Thats what i would do.. go with the one u feel most comfortable chatting to
Good luck..
xxx
PS if that fails, do them both and see which one makes u *ahem* the fastest haha
maybe you don't like either of them that much if you'renot sure which to go for. if you really liked one that much you would think it would be a clearcut decision. how well do you know them? i'd say get to know both of them well before embarking on a relationship with either. good luck
Hmm, this happened to me (2 guys interested, liked them both).
It took me a couple of weeks to decide, but I chose the one who seemed to care most about me, we've now been together 4 months and couldn't be happier!
All I can suggest (apart from echoing previous comments about picking the one you feel you like most) is to find the one with whom you have most in common - never run out of things to say!
It took me a couple of weeks to decide, but I chose the one who seemed to care most about me, we've now been together 4 months and couldn't be happier!
All I can suggest (apart from echoing previous comments about picking the one you feel you like most) is to find the one with whom you have most in common - never run out of things to say!
carly01
im stuck between 2 boys, i like them both and need to make up my mind! there both really sweet n would do anything for me, ive tried listing good and bad points about them both but there both equal! HELP!
wah, how are we supposed to help? We don't even know the boys. Pls describle them.
midloon
Try a different approach?
Like which one is most convenient for you location wise etc.
harsh but it makes a difference.
Like which one is most convenient for you location wise etc.
harsh but it makes a difference.
This probably does make a difference, especially as you would realise who you would prefer to make the effort to see. Also another good way is thinking about the relationship you want with the guy you choose, if it is more serious, pick the one you think you will last longer with, and grow to like more.
If all else fails, flip a coin. If you are disappointed with the result, pick the other!
Oh she's doin an Alfie Moon. Your young , have fun! thats my motto
If you're purely after a no strings attached fun and games type relationship then pick the one you're most attracted to.
If you want a committed, long lasting and loving relationship then pick neither - you're evidently not in love with either or you'd have no qualms about choosing them.
If you want a committed, long lasting and loving relationship then pick neither - you're evidently not in love with either or you'd have no qualms about choosing them.
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