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    say a boy or girl likes you, would you just want to be told by them even if you don't talk to each other much?
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    Yes, but I think I'd be mad to expect them to given I always chicken out of telling people that "i like them"
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    Depends who it was really. Personally I think it would be better to get to know them better first to gauge their reaction.
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    If i was a boy then yes
    if i was a girl then no
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    I would like to know because I find it hard to tell people myself, so chances are I would feel the same way and then I'd be able to tell them if I liked them too. I would be nice about it if I didn't.
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    Yes I would be flattered no matter who it is but not all people are like me
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    yes, i like it when guys get straight the point.
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    Yes, it's always nice to hear if someone likes you
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    It might be a bit of a shock/awkward at first but yes . imo it would make things a lot easier, and i wouldn't go around telling friends so that everybody BUT the girl/boy knew last!!
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    Yes I would want them to tell me!

    Hint, hint (you know who you are :ninja:).
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    It would sure as hell make things easier.

    The amount of times girls have fancied me, waited for me to make a move, and then moved on...I know this cos they tell me months later..when they have a bf..

    And the frustration at the fact I, mostly, liked them at the same time. Ah well, my fault as well as theirs. But ofc, no one wants the feeling of being rejected, so its understandable we keep it to ourselves.
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    I've told people before, but generally only when its got to a point where I'm confused about the signals they are giving or if I want something to happen. I'm quite odd, I like to like people, but I don't always want anything to happen
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    Up to them really, although if I like someone else they will know about it, so I guess it doesnt matter too much.
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    Sometimes I would want someone to tell me they like me, so I can turn them down. Sorry to sound mean! But its really creepy when someone likes you and you really don't like them, and they keep sitting next to you and invading your personal space etc. If they tell me and I turn them down gently, they can know that I'm not interested, and stop liking me. I don't really like leading people on!
    That said, if it were a guy that I was interested in, I would .. want him to tell me too! That way we can do something about it!
    Usually when you like someone it becomes obvious to the person that you like them, so you might as well just say it, privately!!:yep:
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    Yes.
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    I would like to be told. This may stop the person on the other side from having hopeless hopes (if I don't feel the same way) and they would be able to move on. On the other hand, it would mean everything is clear and if I liked them too, then they would understand...
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    Yes I would want them to tell me.
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    Yupsies:yep:
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    Yes, but i never do myself, so can't really talk.
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    Yes. Honesty ftw!
 
 
 
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