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    (Original post by rainbowbex)
    I've told people before, but generally only when its got to a point where I'm confused about the signals they are giving or if I want something to happen. I'm quite odd, I like to like people, but I don't always want anything to happen
    This. I don't know whether to call it psychological foreplay or torture, but it's rather cunning and I enjoy the game like a Greek tragedy until things get quite complex, then Im point blanc
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    (Original post by emerset)
    This. I don't know whether to call it psychological foreplay or torture, but it's rather cunning and I enjoy the game like a Greek tragedy until things get quite complex, then Im point blanc
    I don't really know what you're on about! But I do know its not really a good thing to do! I question my own feelings far far to much.. I never just go with it!
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    No, not if I liked them too. It's about all about the chase.
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    Yes I'd want to know, even though I'm taken. I think once you let people down gently it's easier for them to move on. And if they were my friend, I would prefer to know, so I didn't end up accidentally hurting them.
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    Just don't be like me and only tell someone you like them when you're both very, very drunk:yep:
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    Hmmm. It would depend how I felt about them.

    If I liked them, then yes, just to get it over and done with.

    If I had no feelings for them, seriously the worst thing is letting someone down/being told feelings aren't reciprocated. I'd rather either hear from someone else, have it hinted to me or work it out myself so there wouldn't be the 'so this is awkward... let's just be friends' moment. At least if you don't admit it you can just pretend nothing happened
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    Unless I liked them too, no. I'm a really awkward person, so I'd find it weird, plus I'd end up pitying them.
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    (Original post by rainbowbex)
    I've told people before, but generally only when its got to a point where I'm confused about the signals they are giving or if I want something to happen. I'm quite odd, I like to like people, but I don't always want anything to happen
    this type of thing makes me wish i was gay.
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    I would like them to, but not expect it
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    No, most of the time people need to realise that they like someone and sorta be persuaded into it. So if they told me straight out, I would probably say no to them.
 
 
 
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