I'm currentily going through a 1 year breakup that happened just a month ago and i'm still not over it. She took me for granted because it was my first relationship and i didn't know any better and what i did to get through is just accept that you will find someone much better who will respect you, love you and give you attention. Think of this just as a speed bump before the highway, you gotta go slow but then you speed up and everything is better =). Hope it helps somehow xD, good luck.
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- 23-01-2010 16:23
- 23-01-2010 17:35
Seriously worked for me, totally takes your mind off it cause you have to really concentrate, i'm a bit of a pro now
- 23-01-2010 18:36
2 years, 4 months and counting...
Well not really lol. I'm very happy now, happier than I was, and I have an amazing boyfriend, but every now and again something will remind me of my "first love" - I think if you truly care about someone, they'll always have an impact on you, but you need to wait it out and learn to be happy again, and you'll heal and get stronger
It doesn't help to say it, but it really is just a matter of time.
- 23-01-2010 18:57
A distraction that will ease the pain. However the pain won't go away that quickly. Find a new obsession and I guess that would be your thing : ]
- 23-01-2010 19:00
Time, other women/men, gym, sport......
Alcohol doesnt work though, just makes you more depressed!
- 23-01-2010 19:04
And fall for someone else. I spent the best part of 3 years feeling sorry for myself and then I met someone else. I just wish I'd met them alot sooner, not too soon though.
There is the GSTOW (go shag ten other women) approach which in part I'd recommend