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Do i or don't i? watch

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    Hey there! So.. i've got a bit of a dilema. There's this guy i've been chatting to for a while now, coming up to a year now. However the thing is we first started talking on facebook and since then texting. He's not a total stranger he works in a gym and a mate at works freind works as a receptionist at the gym with him and has coached some of my friends in the past (i think from a previous job before the gym) however i've not met actually him before.

    There's rarely anything suggestive in these texts if at all but periodically he may mention something along the lines of, i'm surpised you're not with anyone, or, has no one at uni asked you out yet, or somthing like that. Nothing more nothing less. He hasn't pressured me into meeting up or anything however i know he wants to.. we were going to last summer but i chickened out to be honest.

    He seems friendly and nice enough and nothing there for me suspect anything else however i just can't quite decide whether to meet with him or not. He's only down the road from me (when i'm not at uni) and isn't persistent in meeting rather he occasionally brings it up in general it's more of a 'hey how you doing? hows things going?' sort of chat.

    I doubt the impression that he has of me is quite what he's expecting, as in a stick insect girl however i counter that with the fact he can look at my pictures and see me for himself.

    Just curious as to what your thoughts are on it guys? Thanks

    If you like him, go for it.


    Get a mutual friend to arrange a night out. use the opportunity to get to know him and take it from there.
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