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Straight female but fantasising about girls?! watch

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    Anon or delete, please! My friends use this site and this is embarrassing for me to talk about.

    Basically, I'm 100% percent straight, and I'm female. I've got a boyfriend right now. I watch lesbian porn sometimes, but I've never really had sexual thoughts about any girls before. However, my boyfriend was round last night and after he left, I had a really weird dream where I had lesbian sex with a girl. I woke up today really confused, and really turned on. :confused:

    I know that this doesn't mean that I'm gay as such, because I've had sex with men and I like men! But all I've thought about today is sex with another girl, it makes me feel really excited and everything. I'm so worried that this isn't normal!

    Advice? Anyone else had this experience?
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    Everyones curious at some point if your not into it you'll get over the whole idea
    inb4 have a threesome
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    Maybe its just the fantasy about rebelling and trying something new, it doesn't necessarily make you a lesbian or bisexual, don't worry. Best thing is not to worry about it!
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    A lot of girls find girl-on-girl porn sexy so I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just because you've had a dream and thought about girls doesn't mean your a lesbian or even bisexual it just means you're thinking about your dream which can be triggered by something completely random and unrelated.

    Wait a few weeks and see if you feel the same. For many girls it's just a fantasy - kind of "forbidden" because they have a boyfriend if you see what i mean. Do you actually fancy any of the girls that you know? See if you can imagine actually experiencing it. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but if you decide that you do like girls then you have to think about where that leaves your boyfriend so consider confiding in him as soon as possible and telling him about what you're thinking. He might want to get involved.... :-)
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    There's nothing unnatural about this. Don't turn it into an issue. Enjoy it
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    Fantasy is just fantasy, There is big divide between that and reality.
    Just because you fantasise about something doesn't mean you actually want it to happen in real life.
    this does not determine whether you are straight or gay(although let me just add I think human sexuality is not so black and white- more shades of grey)
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    I wouldn't imagine it means much, quite a few of my female friends can get turned on by other girls but are straight.

    I think it's hot tbh :sexface:
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    Thanks for the helpful replies!

    I can't imagine doing anything sexual with girls that I know, but I can imagine meeting a girl in a club if she was a stranger, and having sex with her. I think, as someone said, it's the fact that it's 'forbidden' and seems dangerous and exciting.
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    (Original post by nock)
    You are bi. That's really cute of you fantasising with other girls.
    No she isnt. I fantasise about girls sometimes and I'm not.
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    Continue doing it. That is so hot.
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    Meh, labels are for tin cans. Don't worry about it You're perfectly 'normal,' and a lot of people will fantasise about having sex with people of their own gender. Whether you actually do it or not is completely up to you, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with you and don't feel that you need to define yourself a certain way.
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    (Original post by Nelo Angelo)
    Everyones curious at some point if your not into it you'll get over the whole idea
    inb4 have a threesome
    Speak for yourself.

    Anyway, OP, you may be bi. try it out; nothing wrong with that.

    Edit: Also, tell your boyfriend, and describe your dreams in great detail; he will love it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks for the helpful replies!

    I can't imagine doing anything sexual with girls that I know, but I can imagine meeting a girl in a club if she was a stranger, and having sex with her. I think, as someone said, it's the fact that it's 'forbidden' and seems dangerous and exciting.

    I have the same thing! I too have a boyfriend and I could never EVER imagine let alone do anything with any girls I know, but I imagine if i ever did it would be with a stranger. I don't get turned on by normal porn, only girl on girl.
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    Oh jeez not this again.

    Most girls

    fantasise

    about other girls.

    Next question?
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    You utter lesbian.
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    Nah, I would'nt worry about it... tell your bf about it, it'll probably turn him on.
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    I like to watch girl on girl porn and lesbian movies as it does turn me on way more than heterosexual porn. I dont think i am bi or gay as i love my boyfriend and he does turn me on and i dont fancy any girls i know nor would i sleep with a stranger. But phwoarr girl on girl is fit!
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    This is more common than you think :P
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    You aren't bi. This is completely normal. I do exactly the same and was confused about it for ages. I have a boyfriend but still I fantasise about girls sometimes and watch lesbian porn. I think lots of people do it but don't admit to it! x
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    This is the same for me. My boyfriend doesn't mind at all. Means we both watch a bit of girl on girl together and both enjoy it

    Would never actually go out and do it, after all a 'fantasy' is exactly that - something to think about, but not actually make a reality. Well not unless you want to that is
 
 
 
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