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    When I am around my bf I get such weird feelings. For a while i've realised i kind of feel 'little' sometimes. I have this fantasy of being treated like a little girl, and calling him daddy. I know with him i feel so safe and secure and more comfortable with letting this side of me out. But i don't want to totally freak him out or feel uncomfortable around him if i start to act more young and follow through with my urges.. and it doesn't work out. I value my relationship withhhim too much to risk losing it, especially or something which is really only a fantasy. (though at times it feels like such a strong need) I am so confused and don't know what to do
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    Some things are appropiate to share with your boyfriend, but to me, this doesnt seem like something that is entirely 'normal' if you continue to think about it. Women like to feel protected by men and I think you may just be focusing on this too much? You could, by all means tell him if you feel you trust him that much, but it may make things awkward i nthe long run as its not really seen as a normal thing to do with a boyfriend!
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    How is your relationship with your real father? If you feel it's not what you'd like it to be, perhaps this is your way of trying to make up for your lack of father-daughter link with your dad by creating the link with your boyfriend instead, who you're already close to.
    I think that rather than trying to build that sort of relationship with your boyfriend, who tbh probably wouldn't be comfortable with the idea, you should work on your relationship with your real dad, if you can. Good luck!
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    Thanks and I know it is logical to see it as related to my real father but to me the two things are completely different. I have a pretty good relationship with my dad. Thanks for the advice though, I think I am going to just leave it! It seems the safest way!
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    and what will happen when he wants to

    http://i16.ebayimg.com/05/i/000/79/a8/29a3_1_b.JPG
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    So your a lass that is into the kiddy thing, just tell him and be open.
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    troll feeding is causing world hunger
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    sounds like a fantasy that would make fritzl proud.
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    Have you asked Freud what he thinks?
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    You want to call him Daddy?

    Troll watches too much Porn 1!
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    Honestly I'm not a troll:o:
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    I'm currently like this with some girl I know. She seems to have some nurturing aura around her so I feel sort of safe around her. Someone who I can show my more emotional side and be allowed to put my trust in her.

    It's probably more reflective of how you feel about yourself. At least for me, it's because I never got to share my more child-like side with anyone (always been mostly by myself) that now this opportunity presents itself, I feel protected.

    At the same time I also want to protect and guard my friend. So I don't just take on the role of person being protected. xP
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    That is so cute and I'm glad you feel so happy and secure with her!
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    Uh I'd say it's pretty normal for a girl to want her guy to protect her... why not transform it into something more acceptable like he's your shining knight or similar rather than daddy. Then it's less freudian!
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    Screw Freuds' ******** theories, this is just odd. I'm pretty sure that to some degree, everyone likes to feel protected and secure. But he's your boyfriend and he should remain that way, as you (thankfully) have decided.
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    (Original post by gamer91)
    and what will happen when he wants to

    http://i16.ebayimg.com/05/i/000/79/a8/29a3_1_b.JPG
    xD I think I know who you are...
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    (Original post by bubblle)
    xD I think I know who you are...
    and vice versa, you're university offers are quite conspicuous.
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    lots of girls have this fantasy apparently. Is it also a sexual thing or is it just about surrendering control emotionally being able to be vulnerable etc.
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    (Original post by gamer91)
    and vice versa, you're university offers are quite conspicuous.
    That's fair enough, I have yet to hear of anyone else from cornwall with an offer from oxford for maths, so it's probably not that hard to work it out =p
    Twas fairly easy to work out from your name and the Cornwall/Reading location
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    I get this...

    In normal life, I'm pretty independent and smart, and I have a good relationship with my father. But I still want a Daddy. I like being looked after and disciplined, and it really turns me on someone 'Daddy' and being his little girl.

    OP is not trolling. I understand what you mean completely. Introduce it gently to your bf though.
 
 
 
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