When I am around my bf I get such weird feelings. For a while i've realised i kind of feel 'little' sometimes. I have this fantasy of being treated like a little girl, and calling him daddy. I know with him i feel so safe and secure and more comfortable with letting this side of me out. But i don't want to totally freak him out or feel uncomfortable around him if i start to act more young and follow through with my urges.. and it doesn't work out. I value my relationship withhhim too much to risk losing it, especially or something which is really only a fantasy. (though at times it feels like such a strong need) I am so confused and don't know what to do![]()
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- 24-01-2010 17:48
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metrostation22
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- 27-01-2010 11:59
Some things are appropiate to share with your boyfriend, but to me, this doesnt seem like something that is entirely 'normal' if you continue to think about it. Women like to feel protected by men and I think you may just be focusing on this too much? You could, by all means tell him if you feel you trust him that much, but it may make things awkward i nthe long run as its not really seen as a normal thing to do with a boyfriend!
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- 27-01-2010 12:26
How is your relationship with your real father? If you feel it's not what you'd like it to be, perhaps this is your way of trying to make up for your lack of father-daughter link with your dad by creating the link with your boyfriend instead, who you're already close to.
I think that rather than trying to build that sort of relationship with your boyfriend, who tbh probably wouldn't be comfortable with the idea, you should work on your relationship with your real dad, if you can. Good luck! -
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- 29-01-2010 15:06
Thanks and I know it is logical to see it as related to my real father but to me the two things are completely different. I have a pretty good relationship with my dad. Thanks for the advice though, I think I am going to just leave it! It seems the safest way!
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- 29-01-2010 15:56
and what will happen when he wants to
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- 29-01-2010 15:58
So your a lass that is into the kiddy thing, just tell him and be open.
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- 29-01-2010 18:11
troll feeding is causing world hunger
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- 29-01-2010 18:31
sounds like a fantasy that would make fritzl proud.
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- 29-01-2010 18:42
Have you asked Freud what he thinks?
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- 29-01-2010 19:28
You want to call him Daddy?
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- 29-01-2010 19:40
Honestly I'm not a troll
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- 29-01-2010 20:15
I'm currently like this with some girl I know. She seems to have some nurturing aura around her so I feel sort of safe around her. Someone who I can show my more emotional side and be allowed to put my trust in her.
It's probably more reflective of how you feel about yourself. At least for me, it's because I never got to share my more child-like side with anyone (always been mostly by myself) that now this opportunity presents itself, I feel protected.
At the same time I also want to protect and guard my friend. So I don't just take on the role of person being protected. xP -
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That is so cute
and I'm glad you feel so happy and secure with her!
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- 30-01-2010 12:08
Uh I'd say it's pretty normal for a girl to want her guy to protect her... why not transform it into something more acceptable like he's your shining knight or similar rather than daddy. Then it's less freudian!
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- 30-01-2010 13:09
Screw Freuds' ******** theories, this is just odd. I'm pretty sure that to some degree, everyone likes to feel protected and secure. But he's your boyfriend and he should remain that way, as you (thankfully) have decided.
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- 30-01-2010 13:18
(Original post by gamer91)
and what will happen when he wants to
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- 30-01-2010 14:25
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- 30-01-2010 14:43
lots of girls have this fantasy apparently. Is it also a sexual thing or is it just about surrendering control emotionally being able to be vulnerable etc.
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- 30-01-2010 15:25
(Original post by gamer91)
and vice versa, you're university offers are quite conspicuous.
Twas fairly easy to work out from your name and the Cornwall/Reading location -
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- 30-01-2010 21:08
I get this...
In normal life, I'm pretty independent and smart, and I have a good relationship with my father. But I still want a Daddy. I like being looked after and disciplined, and it really turns me on someone 'Daddy' and being his little girl.
OP is not trolling. I understand what you mean completely.Introduce it gently to your bf though.
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