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What does a kiss meen when you get kissed by someone who you are not even going out with? and he says hes not ready for a gf yet. is he trying to keep me intrested?
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Reply 1
Dragoness
What does a kiss meen when you get kissed by someone who you are not even going out with? and he says hes not ready for a gf yet. is he trying to keep me intrested?
Hes playing with your head, or trying to see what he can get
Reply 3
It means he wants a one night stand.
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Reply 4
Um. Well. It sounds like he wants something that's not serious. Pretty much what musicbloke said. If you don't want the same, then avoid getting yourself in that situation again 
Reply 7
He says he really likes me and we se eachother ofen, but he is not ready for a proper gf just yet. i see him sometime this week so i will ask him what he want from. do u think that is a good idea?
Reply 8
it might be that he does like you but is simply scared of full on commitment, in this case i'd be wary how far you take the r-ship as it might as others have said - sound like he just wants casual fun etc
If he says, "I like you but I don't want a girlfriend right now" then... honestly, I think that he:
a) likes you, but not enough to take himself off the market, as it were or
b) just wants someone female to fancy him to make him feel better.
If this were me I would just say, "Look, if you don't want to go out with me then there will be no kissing, and don't even expect me to fancy your sorry arse. But we can hang, I suppose". He wants the power in this relationship and if you give it to him, you'll lost out.
On the other hand *said grudgingly* he could be innocent and genuinely like you but be scared of committment.
a) likes you, but not enough to take himself off the market, as it were or
b) just wants someone female to fancy him to make him feel better.
If this were me I would just say, "Look, if you don't want to go out with me then there will be no kissing, and don't even expect me to fancy your sorry arse. But we can hang, I suppose". He wants the power in this relationship and if you give it to him, you'll lost out.
On the other hand *said grudgingly* he could be innocent and genuinely like you but be scared of committment.
Reply 14
He is 18.
well.. he probabily wants casual sex, handjobs etc as a filler, while he makes his ex girlfriend jelious, thats what happened to me last time a guy kissed me, but wouldnt go out with me. He said something about we can discuss having a relationshop after we have slept together, he didnt want it straight away either, i get the feeling looking back he was keeping me on a line and biding his time. i also wasnt allowed to tell our joint friends.. I never did sleep with him, he went off with his ex anyway.
like mangomaz says, please be careful. i know from personal experience that this sort of situation can seriously mess with your head. you'll end up falling for him, which you shouldn't do. because chances are it won't be reciprocal. he'll just want some fun, something with no-strings-attached. a filler to keep his ego massaged, to prove to himself that he can still get someone after his ex.just don't do it. say no and walk away while you're not too emotionally involved. and try and forget about him
Reply 17
Well this guy is very sensitive so im not sure if he would want to hurt me like that. he always worries that he is going to hurt my feelings. bless him 
Dragoness
Well this guy is very sensitive so im not sure if he would want to hurt me like that. he always worries that he is going to hurt my feelings. bless him
You know it could just be an act, in the end to get what he wants. The types who like their egos massarging or just some fun and something casual usually play on the i dont wanna hurt you.
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