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    Basically I have to apologise to someone when they're the one at fault, I'd never ever normally do this, but this time unfortunately I've got no choice. But if I say I'm sorry and they either say what for and I'm like errr what, then what do I do. Or they might just ignore it, so need to make it sound sincere even though it isn't as I need them to accept it.

    Any tips?


    Oh yeah, it'll be over facebook chat/msn which makes things easier.
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    Im sorry for having to explain to you how to apologise...?
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    Subtly display your palms, it gives the impression of honesty.
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    (Original post by Cesare Borgia)
    Subtly display your palms, it gives the impression of honesty.
    It'll be over facebook chat/msn which makes things easier.
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    if that was me id talk to them normally n if its just normal i wouldnt apologise lol n just forget about it. if the person is off with u, then u apologise. i can't stand apologising when im sure im right lol so good luck with that part anyways
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    (Original post by theronkinator)
    It'll be over facebook chat/msn which makes things easier.
    Ahh that's easy, just write 'seriously' - proper grammar etc and give unnecessary detail.
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    its a woman, isnt it?
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    (Original post by Siobherz)
    if that was me id talk to them normally n if its just normal i wouldnt apologise lol n just forget about it. if the person is off with u, then u apologise. i can't stand apologising when im sure im right lol so good luck with that part anyways
    I can't really apologise to them in person as I rarely see them. And I would never do this, but literally this time don't have a choice.

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    its a woman, isnt it?
    Worse, a guy been controlled by a woman.
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    Once you apologise, they will most likely apologise too. At which point you say "i had my finger crossed so it dont count lol pwned !!111" and sign out. It is the little victories which matter.
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    (Original post by Notker)
    Explain more fully.
    I don't need to, but I wouldn't do this unless I had no choice.
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    (Original post by theronkinator)
    I don't need to, but I wouldn't do this unless I had no choice.
    Well, you're asking us how to do something while giving very minimal information. It would be like asking 'How do I do science?'; only the most general, and useless, advice could be given.
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    How do you apologize to someone when they're at fault..?

    ... You don't. Apologizing if they're in the wrong defeats the purpose of apologizing. Grow a backbone and let them know they're in the wrong.
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    (Original post by tomiswellcool)
    How do you apologize to someone when they're at fault..?

    ... You don't. Apologizing if they're in the wrong defeats the purpose of apologizing. Grow a backbone and let them know they're in the wrong.
    I don't have a choice.

    (Original post by Notker)
    Well, you're asking us how to do something while giving very minimal information. It would be like asking 'How do I do science?'; only the most general, and useless, advice could be given.
    It isn't really, I asked two fairly specific questions on how to make it sound genuine.
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    (Original post by theronkinator)
    (Original post by Borgia)
    Subtly display your palms, it gives the impression of honesty.
    It'll be over facebook chat/msn which makes things easier.
    e-mail them a photograph of your upturned palms before you start the conversation :yep:
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    "I am sorry.. longpause.. NOT"
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    In your position I'd try the following heartfelt apology:

    "STOP BEING SUCH A PUSSY-WHIPPED *****



    ....sorry btw"

    I'd be helpful except that
    1 - I don't apologise to people like that
    2 - Need more info
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    (Original post by TShadow383)
    In your position I'd try the following heartfelt apology:

    "STOP BEING SUCH A PUSSY-WHIPPED *****



    ....sorry btw"

    I'd be helpful except that
    1 - I don't apologise to people like that
    2 - Need more info
    I don't apologise to people like that, never have done, but this time I literally have no choice, I don't want to give more info, it isn't needed, except I 100% don't have a choice.
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    threaten them with a knife; it's better than sacrificing your integrity.
 
 
 
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