Holding Hands

saz_1989

What would you do if you saw your boyfriend/girlfriend holding hands with someone else? Would you get pissed off?

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Reply 1

like if i saw my bf walking hand in hand with another girl? I'd go over and slap him and shout at him, what do you think?

Reply 2

username9303

Lauren

What would you do if you saw your boyfriend/girlfriend holding hands with someone else? Would you get pissed off?

if it was a girlfriend holding hands with a guy i would be peeved, but if she was holding hands with another girl it would be a case of counting my blessings and blagging a threesome :biggrin:

Reply 3

saz_1989

It happened to me at a may ball. I apparently looked like I wanted to kill him. Then had an hour long shouting match, gave up, went to get smashed and then shouted at him some more the next day.

Reply 4

SamTheMan

An arm around a shoulder can be interpreted in a million ways but not holding hands...

Reply 5

erk

Yes, although i'm in no real position to talk. :|

Reply 6

musicbloke

Lauren, why are you still with him? You keep telling us about how you don't want to be.

MB

Reply 7

Tyler Durden

Really depends on the circumstances. My brother, his best mate and their respective girlfriends are all really close and always hug and hold hands. Obviously there is a limit, but it really depends on what the situation is.

Reply 8

need_money

Lauren

It happened to me at a may ball. I apparently looked like I wanted to kill him. Then had an hour long shouting match, gave up, went to get smashed and then shouted at him some more the next day.

Imagine him kissing one of your best mates infront of you then. :eek:

Reply 9

xx_ambellina_xx

Um, I'd get annoyed...I hold hands with my girl friends a lot of the time, but never the guys...

Double standard here though, I often hug my male friends and fall asleep on them and stuff, but if my boyfriend did it I'd kill him.

Reply 10

Lush Law

I dislike hand holding full stop, so yeah, I'd be well fcked off if I saw my bf holding hands with another lad!

Reply 11

SamTheMan

Girls Girls Girls :rolleyes:

If a guy does that with another girl, he simply doesn't like you that much! The message is clear isn't it?

Reply 12

xx_ambellina_xx

SamTheMan

Girls Girls Girls :rolleyes:

If a guy does that with another girl, he simply doesn't like you that much! The message is clear isn't it?

Doesn't mean we can't want to castrate him.

Reply 13

RetiredAccount89

Lauren

It happened to me at a may ball. I apparently looked like I wanted to kill him. Then had an hour long shouting match, gave up, went to get smashed and then shouted at him some more the next day.

depends, i have mates i could hold hands with and it wouldnt mean aught (only a couple though).
that said iw as walking this gal home t'other night (shes a pal, but dont know her that well) and she kept holding my hand. there was nothing in it, its just something she apparently does when tipsy.

Reply 14

zhivago

Lauren

What would you do if you saw your boyfriend/girlfriend holding hands with someone else? Would you get pissed off?

I think it depends. I like the whole hold-handing aspects of relationships. But yes, obviously if my boyfriend was having hand-sex (as I jestingly refer to it! :p:

) with another random girl, I'd be pretty pissed off. However, some dudes have really close female friends, so if your boyfriend is holding hands with a girl that you know, and trust, and she's a close friend then it probably would be acceptable, although that's not to say no jealousy would occur. It's natural to be jealous; hence, boyfriends/girlfriends even get jealous of the attention their partner's own family recieve sometimes!

But yeah, basically, I would be pissed off if he was holding hands with a girl, who I knew was not like a really close friend. He shouldn't really be doing that - holding-hands is a relationship thing, or a girly-friend thing.

Saying this, most girls (I know I am) are more touchy-feely, so as somebody mentioned, double standards do come into play. I tend to touch people lightly, hug them etc, but only as friends. But when you are seeing somebody, you should tone it down a touch.

Basically, I don't think you're a possessive freak. He shouldn't have been randomly holding-hands.

Incidentally, the romantic hold-handing master: Jamie Dornan. *drools*.

(Sorry, this is just a blatant excuse for me to declare my love for this Irish sex god, and also, the hand-holding ritual...):