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    I'm sorry but i am very freaked out by this.

    I thought my boyfriend was kind and caring and would never hurt me like some other guys i know have. But yes ok i was 'snooping' on his computer and i'm damn glad i did. He has this whole secret MSN account that he uses reguarly to talk to hundreds of younger girls in a really pervy way. And recently he's used some of the stuff hes said to them girls on me and calls me a '*****' and that.

    The main reason he says he does this is because he says hes 'bored' and wants to take his mind of his depressing life. But i thought that was what i was there for? Or even PORN?


    I'm so disgusted... some of these girls are 14... and hes 18...

    Dunno what to do i thought he loved me:mad:
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    Hundreds? Who does that?

    Is it bad that he likes talking to people? :blah:

    What does this have to do with you?
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    Hundreds? Who does that?

    Is it bad that he likes talking to people? :blah:

    What does this have to do with you?

    But theyre all young girls... what do you mean what does it have to do with me?? I'm his girlfriend. He talks to them like theyre sluts and gets them to go on webcam and do stuff for him.
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    But theyre all young girls... what do you mean what does it have to do with me?? I'm his girlfriend. He talks to them like theyre sluts and gets them to go on webcam and do stuff for him.
    And you think this is damaging to your relationship?
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    Eww get rid of him!
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    Whhaaaaat?! Somebody call Chris Hansen!!
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    And you think this is damaging to your relationship?

    Yes. It actually freaks me out so much. I wouldn't mind if it was porn because its so easy to get hold of these days and obviously millions of men probably watch it. But he goes out of his way to make these girls do stuff for him online and theyre all like 4/5 years younger than him.
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    Sounds a wee bit creepy to mee..
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yes. It actually freaks me out so much. I wouldn't mind if it was porn because its so easy to get hold of these days and obviously millions of men probably watch it. But he goes out of his way to make these girls do stuff for him online and theyre all like 4/5 years younger than him.
    Yeah that's true.

    You should confront him about this. :fuhrer:

    Seriously.
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    (Original post by + polarity -)
    Hundreds? Who does that?

    Is it bad that he likes talking to people? :blah:

    What does this have to do with you?
    She said he talks to them in a pervy way, how is that not meant to affect a sane minded girlfriend?
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    She said he talks to them in a pervy way, how is that not meant to affect a sane minded girlfriend?
    Hmm, I don't know. :erm:
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    Hmm it is weird. Although not uncommon. People in my halls do the same thing, get on Habbo Hotel and start speaking to young naive girls.

    Its disgusting really, but some people are like that I suppose!

    I wouldn't go telling him that you 'snooped' around on his computer, as this will cause problems. You shouldn't have been looking around in the first place. It will say to him that you don't trust him (even if this turns out to be correct, its probably better to save the arguments.)

    Just say that something popped up when you were checking your MSN or something and question him.
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    Strange.
    My friend and I found something similar to do with her boyfriend the other day, instead he was meeting up with a few girls from his work he liked in a "secret way". Going to the cinema or whatever.
    She was really upset actually. I have no idea if she has said anything to him though.
    Whether you question him over it or not is up to you.
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    If you have enough reasons to believe somethings shifty, then make it very clear to him that you'r well aware of whats going on. If he continues to do this and shows no sign of change, just leave him, seriously.
    There's no point in wasting your time on such pathetic people.
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    Ditch him. Just do it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    But he goes out of his way to make these girls do stuff for him online and theyre all like 4/5 years younger than him.
    Yeah thats called child porn...
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    Stud :jiggy:
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    EUGH. Please get rid!

    That's like bordering on pedophilia/child porn. And the fact he made a separate account and kept it a secret shows he knows it's wrong.
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    One of my friend's boyfriend has been doing this and she got really upset. She eneded up dumping him. Well, trying to anyway.
    I think you should just end it. If he's so 'bored' in his 'depressing life' then he's not worth it, especially if he's talking to young girls in that way. You don't deserve it.
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    Ewww. I personally think thats pretty sick >.< He's definitely not worth it!
 
 
 
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