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    Hey, keep anon, he uses computers.

    So I started college in september and never new anyone going to that college let alone my course. So I met this guy (i'm a guy as well fyi) who I am now good friends with and we started hanging out.

    I've noticed that the girls seem to love him no matter where it is; college, parties etc.. The thing i don't get is that in terms of physical attractiveness he aint all that. I'm straight, but I know a hot guy when i see one. He's pretty short - 5"6 and not exactly well built, i can the beginning of a belly. However he is in a metal band and has the piercings, shoulder length black hair and dress sense to match. He has the 'I dont give a **** about anything' attitude and is failing the college course.

    This will sound weird but when i imagine him naked ( i mean without the snake bites, hat, clothes) he must be pretty unattractive, he would remind me of one of those troll dolls. He seems like he doesnt even try to pull girls he just kinda pricks about with the rest of us, we turn around and he's pulling some girl 6 inches taller than him that clearly has no interest in metal whatsoever. how the **** does he do that?

    I'm about 6"1, slim, dress very well, cute personality (not my opinion) but quite quiet. I make an effort but get no joy.

    Anyway it looks like we will be going to the same uni (if he somehow passes) and possibly the same course. Ultimately 0% attention will be given to me and he will be rolling in it through just being lazy and laughing at inappropriate times. He's a great guy, why else would i hang about with him but It does get really annoying.

    so what i'm asking is why do girls fall for that/like that (whatever it is he has/does)?

    Are all girls prepared to sacrifice physical attractiveness for a guy that screams in a band and... well thats it.?

    In my shoes, guys would you try and distance yourself from him for selfish reasons or stay with him?
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    Sounds like you might have a little man crush on this guy.
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    Because he's in a band, duh.
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    lmao troll doll hahahahaha what a pimp
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    (Original post by Meagz)
    Because he's in a band, duh.
    I'm not following your point...
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    It sounds like you want him for yourself.
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    if your genuinely a nice person, soon the girls will all realise. its better to wait for the right one than to rush off and try desperately to find one just because your mates have
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    (Original post by sbarrie2)
    i'm not the op. anon fail fail.
    aha, touché.

    Guys in bands get laid was my point.
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    (Original post by Meagz)
    aha, touché.

    Guys in bands get laid was my point.
    your avatar is mesmeric.
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    Often musicians are overly confident (even to the point they are arrogant) and their talented often attracts girls, giving them a bit of power. With musicians, it's not always about looks, but a musician with looks is often dynamite with the ladies

    Try and get your own talent, and find your own niche. Maybe not music, but possibly performing arts or sports, as this will give you a persona that certain girls can hook onto.
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    if its any help i cant stand those kinda people (your friend kinda people). I prefer the quieter more reserved people. Though some girls like the 'bad' guys...BUT under NO circumstances Do NOT now try to be one of those guys who try to act 'hard' and like they dont care. In my opinion there's nothing less attractive than someone trying to be someone there not. Especially if they're trying to act cool! lol in fact we make fun of them!!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    However he is in a metal band and has the piercings, shoulder length black hair and dress sense to match. He has the 'I dont give a **** about anything' attitude and is failing the college course.
    :coma:
    What is the name of his band?

    However like person above me i do like quieter dudes with a nice personality....your friend sounds like a playa
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    (Original post by BeckyCorn)
    if your genuinely a nice person, soon the girls will all realise. its better to wait for the right one than to rush off and try desperately to find one just because your mates have
    Dosn't sound like the guys a nice person to be honest. Guess Alexandra Burke was right and it is the bad boys that catch the girls eyes.
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    (Original post by .x*rainbowlover*x.)
    if its any help i cant stand those kinda people (your friend kinda people). I prefer the quieter more reserved people. Though some girls like the 'bad' guys...BUT under NO circumstances Do NOT now try to be one of those guys who try to act 'hard' and like they dont care. In my opinion there's nothing less attractive than someone trying to be someone there not. Especially if they're trying to act cool! lol in fact we make fun of them!!
    FYI it isnt a 'in you face show offy' kind of don't care. Its more of a 'cba quiet, lazy' don't care.
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    You should join his band. Yeh u can be the guy who hits the triangle at the end. The girls will b all over u.
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    I'd pick you if it makes you feel any better.
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    (Original post by 2kuayyaz)
    You should join his band. Yeh u can be the guy who hits the triangle at the end. The girls will b all over u.
    Metal band. Triangle. Metal band. Triangle. Metal band. Triangle....

    catch my drift?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This will sound weird but when i imagine him naked
    You're right, it does sound weird for a supposedly straight guy. Do you do this a lot?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Metal band. Triangle. Metal band. Triangle. Metal band. Triangle....

    catch my drift?
    Ok then learn an instrument like a accoustic guitar. The girls are all over the musician type.
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    (Original post by 2kuayyaz)
    Ok then learn an instrument like a accoustic guitar. The girls are all over the musician type.
    Ok i'll purchase an acoustic guitar and acoustic guitar for dummies. I'll show up at band practice next week... they shouldn't tell me where to go...
 
 
 
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