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Boyfriend wants a 3 some! watch

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    Its really not that strange so don't make it in to something its not. Its a difficult emotion to put in to words but its more about jealousy being a turn on than him being gay. He's not gay, just a little kinky so don't sweat it.
    Unless of course he actually refused a threesome with another girl, in which case he could well be gay.

    P.S. By 'refused' I don't mean suggesting a threesome with a guy instead of a threesome with a girl, I mean actively making a point of not wanting a 2 girl threesome. ever.
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    I would check what set-up he has in mind as well. Check out some 3some porn as that will likely be where he got this idea from and so what he is expecting.
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    Make sure he's massive, then he'll regret it.
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    Ill join in if you like....
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If he wants to watch you having sex - you could record having sex. Then he gets to watch himself having his way with you.

    He could pretend to be another man for this video.
    Omg you really do understand things. :o: He has said before he would love to watch porn and see me with other guys.
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    you have three life lines.
    ask the audience [wouldnt recommend as they are strangers]
    call a friends [must have a good friend though]
    go fifty-fifty [might not help though]
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    (Original post by Glen Drover is hot)
    Its really not that strange so don't make it in to something its not. Its a difficult emotion to put in to words but its more about jealousy being a turn on than him being gay. He's not gay, just a little kinky so don't sweat it.
    Unless of course he actually refused a threesome with another girl, in which case he could well be gay.

    P.S. By 'refused' I don't mean suggesting a threesome with a guy instead of a threesome with a girl, I mean actively making a point of not wanting a 2 girl threesome. ever.
    Thanks. I know he isn't gay for sure and he did also said he wouldn't mind 2 girls but 2 guys would be first choice.
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    Please dont do anything that you will regret think through it thoroughly, its not always about pleasing people u know
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    Some people just want to try these things out and the fact he's asked you to do it shows he cares for you enough not to go off and get his jollies himself.
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    Omg you really do understand things. :o: He has said before he would love to watch porn and see me with other guys.

    Haha well I try my best.

    Just thinking if you aren't really comfortable with a threesome there are alternatives and compromises to be made. Either in place of a threesome, or to help you both build up to one as it were - or even to decide whether or not you like the idea.

    It would be a shame to jump ahead with a potentially damaging threesome if he could be just as happy (or even put off the whole idea) by something similar, just between the two of you.

    Ideas:

    Penis-shaped dildo: he gets to come at you with 2 penises. If that's what turns him on. You could pretend it was a threesome. Maybe giving a name to the imaginary other guy.

    Record sex: he gets to watch you like you're in a porno. If he's turned on by you being with another man.. he can pretend to be another man. You can even do stuff together as you watch it. Or it can just be something for him to watch.

    Slutty lingerie/ slutty fantasy (but just between the two of you)

    A compromise threesome: A 2nd guy present.. but you don't engage in sexual acts with him. Maybe he can just watch, or ****, or something. If you are going to go ahead with a threesome, why not try this first in any case - to decide if you are actually comfortable with the "chosen" guy.
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    Make it a one girl, two guy threesome?
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    OP, I think your bf watches too much porn movies :yep:

    The question is, how much porn is too much porn? :lol:
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    This is absurd, the best girl (open to threesomes) is with the worst guy (desires a threesome with another guy).

    More girls need to be like this :dry: threesomes are the way forward!
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    Just logically think about it. Why would he prefer another guy instead of a woman? He's either bi/bicurious or he lost some sort of bet with his mate so has to do it because of that.
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    I cannot imagine why he would want to share you with another guy, if he had any romantic feelings for you at all. I could vaguely understand him wanting to add another girl into the mix, if he was just sexually interested in you, but another guy would just be gay. You will feel cheap and used afterwards, not to mention filthy, so my advice would be to not do it. Of course, I'm not an expert in threesomes, but it sounds like he is taking the piss.
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    I say, Top fckin bloke! He's simply voicing on behalf of the rest of Britain's males!!
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    (Original post by Charzhino)
    Just logically think about it. Why would he prefer another guy instead of a woman? He's either bi/bicurious or he lost some sort of bet with his mate so has to do it because of that.
    Lol. Well I enjoy 2 guys 1 girl porn scenes at least as much as 2 girls 1 guy, but I'm not at all bi or bicurious.

    Anyway OP, you're not going to let your golden ticket go to waste are you?
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    if your not comfortable doing it then don't do it, don't be forced in to doing it
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    i really really really want 1
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    (Original post by midlandsman)
    Lol. Well I enjoy 2 guys 1 girl porn scenes at least as much as 2 girls 1 guy, but I'm not at all bi or bicurious.

    Anyway OP, you're not going to let your golden ticket go to waste are you?
    Lol. I guess thinking about it, a guy really can't do anything to both of them at once since you only have one ****, so it's pointless in that sense.
 
 
 
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