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    (Original post by tinktinktinkerbell)
    i disagree, i know exactly what i would do in certain situations, this being one of them
    You didn't seem to pay any attention to my post..
    You really don't :no:
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    (Original post by blinkbelle)
    You didn't seem to pay any attention to my post..
    You really don't :no:

    oh i really do, i know my own mind
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    (Original post by tinktinktinkerbell)
    oh i really do, i know my own mind
    *sigh* you really are a lost cause. Carry on in your own little ignorant world, its fine with me..
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    I'd want to hit him back but would probably run away in shock.
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    Id hope if it was my sister she would call me so I could beat his ass
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    (Original post by blinkbelle)
    *sigh* you really are a lost cause. Carry on in your own little ignorant world, its fine with me..


    how does knowing your own mind mean you are ignorant? what a crock of ****, it doesnt mean you are ignorant at all

    i know people whove been abused and they got out, why would it be so different for me :rolleyes:

    just because you were too weak minded to get out of it doesnt mean everyone else will be and just because you didnt realise you were being mentally/emotionally abused doesnt mean others wouldnt realise, dont judge everyone by yourself and what you went through
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    (Original post by tinktinktinkerbell)



    if i hit my bf i would fully expect him to hit me back, it works both ways IMO, if a woman is man enough to hit a man shes man enough to expect it and take it back





    i disagree, i know exactly what i would do in certain situations, this being one of them
    I could not bring myself to hit a girl, the most I could do is restrain her if she was really going crazy
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    (Original post by tinktinktinkerbell)
    just because you were too weak minded to get out of it doesnt mean everyone else will be and just because you didnt realise you were being mentally/emotionally abused doesnt mean others wouldnt realise, dont judge everyone by yourself and what you went through
    Jesus christ, how insensitive and rude can you get? I was not weak minded - the assumption that victims of domestic abuse are is wrong. Anyone can be a victim, that's the scariest part of it.

    I am an incredibly strong willed, independent person. My ex manipulated me and made me see myself wrongly, in a negative light. It wasn't easy to see and certainly doesn't make me weak in any way. :no:
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    (Original post by blinkbelle)
    Jesus christ, how insensitive and rude can you get? I was not weak minded - the assumption that victims of domestic abuse are is wrong. Anyone can be a victim, that's the scariest part of it.

    I am an incredibly strong willed, independent person. My ex manipulated me and made me see myself wrongly, in a negative light. It wasn't easy to see and certainly doesn't make me weak in any way. :no:
    thats what makes you weak minded IMO, the fact you let someone make you see yourself like that, i would never allow ANYONE to make me see myself in a negative light, not a chance
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    I'd leave him straight away, and probably tell my dad, who would confront him. No point in pretending I would be able to defend myself.
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    (Original post by tinktinktinkerbell)
    thats what makes you weak minded IMO, the fact you let someone make you see yourself like that, i would never allow ANYONE to make me see myself in a negative light, not a chance
    Well IMO I am stronger than you ever will be, for surviving something like that :cool:
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    (Original post by blinkbelle)
    Well IMO I am stronger than you ever will be, for surviving something like that :cool:

    lol if you say so

    but no, the strong IMO are those (like my best friend and cousin) who get out of it straight away when they realise that hang on something isnt right here, he shouldnt be making me feel like this (when the emotional/mental abuse starts) THOSE people are strong imo, you arnt
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    well all i no is that i would never hit my girlfriend.
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    (Original post by tinktinktinkerbell)
    lol if you say so

    but no, the strong IMO are those (like my best friend and cousin) who get out of it straight away when they realise that hang on something isnt right here, he shouldnt be making me feel like this (when the emotional/mental abuse starts) THOSE people are strong imo, you arnt
    Personally I don't find domestic abuse a laughing matter - 'lol'. :rolleyes:

    I actually don't give a **** whether you think I'm 'strong' or not, as I know I am. You're just a small minded idiot on an internet forum!
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    (Original post by blinkbelle)
    Well IMO I am stronger than you ever will be, for surviving something like that :cool:
    I'm afraid the other person is right here, I can't see any excuse big or small for staying with someone who abuses you. If a woman hit me with intent, even if they weren't exactly strong enough to inflict pain I would see this as a clear indication that I was with a nut and that it was time to leave.
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    (Original post by tinktinktinkerbell)
    lol if you say so

    but no, the strong IMO are those (like my best friend and cousin) who get out of it straight away when they realise that hang on something isnt right here, he shouldnt be making me feel like this (when the emotional/mental abuse starts) THOSE people are strong imo, you arnt
    Your confusing the word strong with the phrase common sense, simple mistake...
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    (Original post by hankkosovo)
    Your confusing the word strong with the phrase common sense, simple mistake...

    no im really not, sure its common sense to know that someone you love hurting you isnt right but it takes a strong person to leave someone they love a lot
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    I'd be horrified and would seriously consider our relationship
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    Hit him harder. But my boyfriend wouldn't do that. We used to slap each other lightly for funsies, but it got boring after a while and he didn't like it anymore. =p
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    (Original post by tinktinktinkerbell)
    im almost 14 stone and my bf is approx 2 stone lighter than me, granted im only 5ft2 but height means **** all when it comes to how strong someone is
    Fat doesn't equal strength :fyi:
 
 
 
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