I don't think I've ever felt any of that, at least not to the extent everyone else seem to blubber on about
And I'm still in this relationship, I love him dearly and deeply care for him.
Are the usual romantic cliches about tingles down your spine and electricity at all true? No, unless he tickles me.
If so, does this continue indefinitely? Nope.
Would you still describe your partner as sexy? Yes
Do you daydream about them when they are not around? Daydream is for teenagers, for people who do not have the person they love... I have him, I think about him, but I don't daydream about him or us.
God we sound boring. And maybe we are. I do find it sad that we don't seem to possess the 'passion' loads of other couples (at least) say they do. I only recently had a conversation with him about the lack of sex and feeling too 'settled'... But I do think passion is overrated, and romance is exaggerated... at the end of the day, it's how much he cares for me and how much I care for him that matters. We have a very strong relationship, and complement each other very well. In some ways, maybe it is more like best friends than lovers... but for someone like me who wants nothing more than normality and stability, he is perfect.
Oh, and I have felt all those things: butterflies in stomach, pounding heart in your ears, shivering, clammy hands... the entire lot. It was for a boy I was deeply infatuated with, 'loved' as I thought loved meant at 15
I daydreamed about him constantly, loved the person I daydreamed him to be... and we never happened :xD: Figures
That was teenage lust and puppy love, this is real love. I do miss the rush of feelings, I admit... but I wouldn't give what I have now just to feel it fleetingly once again.