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    Please keep anon or delete.

    Sorry in advance for the long post, but:

    I used to work with this guy, who from the first moment i actually saw him was like wow. I then got to know him he got to know me etc etc and he went up in my interests majorly as he was just genuinely such a nice guy but i didn't really know where i stood with him.
    In the mean time i mistakenly got with my housemate who i went out with 4 months, that ended and wow is it awkward in the house now!. He was constantly jealous of this guy because i guess it was stupid but i mentioned a few times how awesome he was etc, just as a friend at that time.
    Anyway i had to move from my job to a different part of the company and therefore don't see this guy very often, but i went back to my old work last week and missed seeing him as he wasn't working.

    He then spoke to me on MSN saying how he was gutted he didn't see me AND just found out that i was single again and asked if i knew he liked (LIKE LIKE ) me when i worked with him. I didn't really but so happy to know he did! He then sort of suggested that we got together etc and how he has an awesome time with me when we went out and were just generally together.

    My question is however, he has a girlfriend, who by my standards i would say is definitely the league above me, if there are such things. I think she's better looking than me etc. So why is he interested in me? AND Would you, if in my shoes, go out with this guy regardless of the girlfriend? I know morally it's wrong but he is awesome

    Sorry about the long post, thanks for reading HELP!! :o:

    If he has a girlfriend then he is probably looking for trouble. If you think he honestly wants to meet as friends, why don't you suggest meeting with a group of other people including his girlfriend. That way, you get to have a laugh together, without his girlfriend feeling ousted or suspicious and you could both invite your mates along so you get to meet some new people.

    Whilst he has a girlfriend, steer clear, it'll only end in tears. Make this clear to him if he tries anything on.

    Tell him to finish with his misses or piss off.
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