(Original post by Anonymous)
So, in the last 3 weeks my boyfriend has become increasingly distant with me. He does not suggest we meet up, hardly texts, etc. He's not affectionate when we're together and acts really coldly. I've spoken to him about it, and nothing's changed. I even asked him if he wanted to be with me still, to which he said yes.
He never used to be like this, so I don't know what's happened. The fact he may have cheated has occurred to me, and I will ask him about it tomorrow. He's not the type to cheat though. I'm thinking of explaining how I feel, and then suggesting a break while he thinks about if he really wants to be in a relationship with me. Providing he hasn't cheated and still wants to go out with me, I was thinking of maybe laying down some compromises regarding contact, etc. Should I do this, or suggest the break?
Oh, love. -hugs tight-
This happened to me - and i thought about asking for a break..but the next day he broke up with me.I really loved him, but things just werent meant to happen, I guess.
I'm really, really sorry if this happens to you, lovely - and if you need anything, I'm on PM.
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- 27-01-2010 19:43
(Original post by ADavis1)
- 27-01-2010 20:08
- 27-01-2010 22:19
Oops, wrong thread...
- 27-01-2010 22:22
You don't appear to be happy with him anymore. This is no way to be so I think you should drop him.
- 27-01-2010 22:25
Do you two love each other? HAVE either of you said and MEANT love to each other?
- 28-01-2010 12:00
My ex did this increasingly over the span of a few weeks/couple of months, then decided she didn't like men anymore. See, all sorts of hilarious things could result from this!