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    this guy tried to finger me and it REALLY REALLY hurt. ive tried myself since and i cant do it ..it hurts that much...aaargh?
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    Get a hair brush and loosen yourself up.
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    if it hurts, stop sticking things up there?
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    Did he have bad nails?
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    If you're not looking forward to sex, why call yourself 'muffin'? Is it supposed to be ironic?
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    Maybe you should do it gradually and make yourself feel relaxed. The more you think it of hurting the more it will hurt.
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    The body has natural methods of stopping it hurting. You're either not aroused enough or yours don't work. For the former, try to be more aroused/properly relaxed. For the latter, buy some lube (durex play is good as you can use it with condoms... but whatever you do, do NOT buy tingle or heat) or see your doctor.
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    why don't you...get horny, then....natural lubrication should loosen things up....and then....enter the finger
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    put your foot inside, that'll bare loosen you up
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    (Original post by Rimipie)
    put your foot inside, that'll bare loosen you up
    lmfao
    ahahahha
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    I used to be similar, honestly I did. The way I got around it was to use KY jelly (sold at most Boots stores, and at the doctors), and just to jump the gun and go for full penetration of something a bit larger...

    Yes, it did hurt, but usually all these types of activities do when you're just starting out. You're nervous, just relax and welcome the experience.

    All the best! Jess xx

    Info: Same sort of scenario when I was 15. Now 18 and fully content ^_^
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    Someone once scratched me, I was like 'owww!' and he was like 'sorry' and now I see him all the time at uni and it's still like ':erm:'.

    But yeah that sounds bad
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    (Original post by Valjean)
    The body has natural methods of stopping it hurting. You're either not aroused enough or yours don't work. For the former, try to be more aroused/properly relaxed. For the latter, buy some lube (durex play is good as you can use it with condoms... but whatever you do, do NOT buy tingle or heat) or see your doctor.
    HAH!! :P:
 
 
 
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