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    I can't do relationships!
    Once I know a guys interested in me, and that if i wanted I could 'have him', I suddenly don't want him any more.
    I enjoy all the attention but the minuite he suggests anything more i.e 'dating' I back off. I don't know why I do this, but its starting to annoy me. Whats wrong with me? lol
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    I used to be a bit like this, and somewhat regret some of the choices I've made in the past. Maybe you are shy, and doubt your ability in being a good girlfriend. I'd say, you should give it a go and date the guy. Life is short, so you don't know what you're missing until you've tried it.
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    It's obvious.......... you're weird :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I can't do relationships!
    Once I know a guys interested in me, and that if i wanted I could 'have him', I suddenly don't want him any more.
    I enjoy all the attention but the minuite he suggests anything more i.e 'dating' I back off. I don't know why I do this, but its starting to annoy me. Whats wrong with me? lol
    Rather strange, you were right to come to TSR!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I can't do relationships!
    Once I know a guys interested in me, and that if i wanted I could 'have him', I suddenly don't want him any more.
    I enjoy all the attention but the minuite he suggests anything more i.e 'dating' I back off. I don't know why I do this, but its starting to annoy me. Whats wrong with me? lol
    Don't be too annoyed! Plenty of people are like that.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I can't do relationships!
    Once I know a guys interested in me, and that if i wanted I could 'have him', I suddenly don't want him any more.
    I enjoy all the attention but the minuite he suggests anything more i.e 'dating' I back off. I don't know why I do this, but its starting to annoy me. Whats wrong with me? lol
    I'm exactly the same. I think it's something subconcious that I can't put my finger on.
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    (Original post by mau5)
    I'm exactly the same. I think it's something subconcious that I can't put my finger on.
    You're doing it wrong. Finger goes in not on.
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    Hmm... you're like a sick man who keeps making appointments with the doctor but never keeps them, yet still wonders why on Earth he's sick!

    I know a girl who's been doing that to me lately, and all it succeeds in doing is pissing the !&*% out of me, and making me respect her less.

    Really, just tell yourself it's counterproductive and make a conscious effort to stop.
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    Well, really annoying girl that I live with was basically like that. Would chase a guy/let them chase her... would go on 1 or 2 dates (making it to a second date really seemed like she was committing to marry the guy or something the way she acted!0) and then would quickly loose interest. However, total loser guy who never showed interest in her ever, she just chased for ages.
    Anyway, then she found the right guy and apparently "it just felt right" and now they've been together ages.

    Its kinda funny too... start of the year she complained about how much time i spent with my boyfriend, that i wasn't going out, was just spending time with him in my room etc and now that's exactly how she is.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I can't do relationships!
    Once I know a guys interested in me, and that if i wanted I could 'have him', I suddenly don't want him any more.
    I enjoy all the attention but the minuite he suggests anything more i.e 'dating' I back off. I don't know why I do this, but its starting to annoy me. Whats wrong with me? lol
    Oh good lord

    one of the most life threatening diseases... CantDoDates Symdrone....

    I feel so sorry for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :violin:

    i hope you get this HUGE problem sorted soon
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    (Original post by Broderss)
    You're doing it wrong. Finger goes in not on.
    It's an easy mistake to make.
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    -mm scratch this post, it was a bit harsh, was in a pretty bad mood earlier. -
 
 
 
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