I am a girl, 18 and still a virgin. I dont find being a virgin an issue at all and it was my own choice to remain a virgin. I did have a boyfriend for 18 months but I didnt feel ready or mature enough and was too self conscious.
However, we did do other things involving hands and mouths (if you get what I mean ) After we split up, I have done stuff with other guys but not sex.
I do now feel that I would be ready to have sex, with the right person (dont want to be in 'love' but someone who I care about.) but I am really really concerned about my lack of experience.
I dont want my attempt at sex to be laughable as I think most people by 18 know whats going on. Spesh the way people go on at uni.
I am also a bit embarassed about blow jobs. I enjoy giving them and would be willing to practice at getting better. But the thought of a guy receiving one from me and just thinking this is a bit rubbish.. is well ... kinda really embarrasing. (I guess I am a bit of a perfictionist.)
What are the downsides?