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Worried about the effect of sexual inexperience... watch

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    I am a girl, 18 and still a virgin. I dont find being a virgin an issue at all and it was my own choice to remain a virgin. I did have a boyfriend for 18 months but I didnt feel ready or mature enough and was too self conscious.

    However, we did do other things involving hands and mouths (if you get what I mean ) After we split up, I have done stuff with other guys but not sex.

    I do now feel that I would be ready to have sex, with the right person (dont want to be in 'love' but someone who I care about.) but I am really really concerned about my lack of experience.

    I dont want my attempt at sex to be laughable as I think most people by 18 know whats going on. Spesh the way people go on at uni.

    I am also a bit embarassed about blow jobs. I enjoy giving them and would be willing to practice at getting better. But the thought of a guy receiving one from me and just thinking this is a bit rubbish.. is well ... kinda really embarrasing. (I guess I am a bit of a perfictionist.)

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