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I love a girl I hardly know. watch

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    Hey, before you jump in and said LUST, no.

    I don't lust over her, I just love everything about her! sure it might change in time, but am i wrong to feel like im in love with someone i've just started seeing? We have a really really strong connection & I've never felt this way about anyone before!

    And I'm EXTREMELY picky.
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    This is infatuation, NOT love.
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    I think u can only learn so much about a person u've only spoken to for a few minutes perhaps. The more ur around this person the more u'll discover ur true feelings
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    Hey you :p:

    It's called infatuation.... Pretty normal so early on my dear. It won't last and will turn into genuine feelings, genuine respect, genuine admiration, rather than superficial 'love/lust'.
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    if you hardly know her how do you know you love her?
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    (Original post by -XxX-)
    if you hardly know her how do you know you love her?
    we spoke 2 hours straight in a house party? Can you speak that long with someone unless you are falling for them the more they speak? I told her poetry and she told my friends that she couldn't stop thinking about me, I couldn't stop thinking about her!

    I was about to txt her and I swear 2min earlier, she TXT me with the exact thing i was gonna ask "how was your day?"

    How can this be infatuation and love? but you're probably right. :yep:

    So what should I call this? I am infutuated with a girl i just met?

    Should i tell her, I am infutuated by you? will she respond good or bad to that.. lol! OFC, I won't say I love... But I've been with a girl for 1year and I never told her I loved her, cos i didn't!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    we spoke 2 hours straight in a house party?
    this is love? shocker.
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    (Original post by choongsta)
    this is love? shocker.
    let me guess you've been single all your life? /shoo and stop spamming.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    let me guess you've been single all your life? /shoo and stop spamming.
    sure... have fun explaining your infutuation to her
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    Oh! It's meant to be!
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    Lol either a 15 year old poster who does not understand anything about women and life or a troll tbh.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    we spoke 2 hours straight in a house party? Can you speak that long with someone unless you are falling for them the more they speak? I told her poetry and she told my friends that she couldn't stop thinking about me, I couldn't stop thinking about her!
    Speaking to someone for 2 hours doesnt mean youre in love with them...it means you can hold a conversation. Liking someone and being in love are two different things

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    I was about to txt her and I swear 2min earlier, she TXT me with the exact thing i was gonna ask "how was your day?"
    Thats great.... I hope you said "Jinx" but its not that random. If it was somethng like "i like the colour green" then it'd be weird but still not love

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    How can this be infatuation and love? but you're probably right. :yep:
    infatuation lol. You cant love a person till you know them. and thanks :p:

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    So what should I call this? I am infutuated with a girl i just met?
    :yes:

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    Should i tell her, I am infutuated by you? will she respond good or bad to that.. lol! OFC, I won't say I love... But I've been with a girl for 1year and I never told her I loved her, cos i didn't!
    ermm no, you wait. First to find out if you actually like her and then to find out if she likes you back
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    we spoke 2 hours straight in a house party? Can you speak that long with someone unless you are falling for them the more they speak? I told her poetry and she told my friends that she couldn't stop thinking about me, I couldn't stop thinking about her!

    I was about to txt her and I swear 2min earlier, she TXT me with the exact thing i was gonna ask "how was your day?"

    How can this be infatuation and love? but you're probably right. :yep:

    So what should I call this? I am infutuated with a girl i just met?

    Should i tell her, I am infutuated by you? will she respond good or bad to that.. lol! OFC, I won't say I love... But I've been with a girl for 1year and I never told her I loved her, cos i didn't!
    DONT say ur infatuated, there will be a bad response
    dont rush. just tell her she's really fun to talk to or whatever, TAKE IT EASY JHEEZ! and dont throw around the "L" word like that, its sacred.
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    Don't jump in too deep, just try to keep a strong hold on your feelings and when it's the right time, let them out.
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    You're quite awkward, aren't you?
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    Awww people, don't be mean.

    I can really sympathise with you because I was in this situation once too. I met a guy at a party and we talked all night, for about 12 hours straight, about the deepest things. The connection between us was incredible and I wouldn't hesitate to describe it as love at first sight.

    A word of warning - things ended very badly between us and it took me two years to get over him. I think this was because we rushed into things way too fast. Don't rush; take time to get to know her and to take her out on proper dates. If you two really do have a connection then that won't go away. Good luck!
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    Hey, I mostly fall in love with people I don't know. The people I know are boring, and I have intimacy issues which you could have too.

    I don't think we have to live by terms. Just think of it as strong feelings - whose to say the burning fire you feel for each other is inferior to the 'love' of a married couple bored to death of each other. Don't let society tell you what real love is. Feelings are feeling, fire is fire.

    Chase her, is my opinion.
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    Tbh ive felt like this once or twice. Usually after a break up, or maybe because I quickly put people into "I like you" and "I dont like you" categories. I know its not love, but the potential for love is there. Makes my heart go quicker and a bit mushy inside... aww......

    Anyway, OP, talking to someone for 2 hours at a house party is NOT love, and saying that doesnt mean I've never been in a relationship, it just means I have some social proficiency. Love takes time to come about, it doesnt happen over night, especially not in 2 hours!!
 
 
 
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