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    Hey TSR..again. :p: I always have problem with relationships, huh?

    Okay, well, firstly - its not about sex! Playboy King....out you go.
    Anyway..this guy I've been talking to for a while - sometimes hes dead responsive and lovely (esp in person, 3 dates - hopefully and counting)..but sometimes on MSN and via text his conversation is quite bland..using lol a lot and things.

    I want to know how you guys tell if someones using you - and once I reply, if you think I should perhaps back off a bit, or use him back for a little fun? I was just scared he didnt like me back, so can anyone advise on this also? Theres a gig on Friday, and were both going, so:woo:...

    Anyway. Barrage of amazing TSR-advice, please.

    Love,
    Meg<3
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    erm...some ppl just dont talk that much on msn and that, just go by how he is in person i'd say
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    (Original post by Siobherz)
    erm...some ppl just dont talk that much on msn and that, just go by how he is in person i'd say
    -nods-
    Okay. Hes very..well. How would you describe this behavior?

    Snuggling into me & nice versa, kissing my hair/forehead even in fornt of his friends, arm around my waist etc. He makes my heart beat fast:o:
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    What because he's pretty unresponsive by msn and txt you think he's using you?
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    (Original post by desi_jatt)
    What because he's pretty unresponsive by msn and txt you think he's using you?
    He could be - for use in person. You know? It wasnt just that, I thought maybe he didnt like me
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    Well tbh from experience most people are the same via msn + txt, just don't bug him too often cause then he might go off you, play hard to get in a subtle way.
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    (Original post by desi_jatt)
    Well tbh from experience most people are the same via msn + txt, just don't bug him too often cause then he might go off you, play hard to get in a subtle way.
    And how do i do that? :rolleyes: Thank you <3
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    (Original post by megara)
    And how do i do that? :rolleyes: Thank you <3
    when you get a text from him dont reply immediately. put your phone on the other side of the room and then reply him when you remember. or if u get a text from him where he doesnt ask a question or raise a topic, just dont reply.

    leave your computer when on msn to do stuff without saying "brb" then get back and say "oh sorry I was busy"

    just generally give him a little less attention.
    I doubt if he's using you, some people are just crap on txt+msn but are amazing in person. how is he when you guys talk on the phone? that may be a middle ground.
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    (Original post by renault)
    tbh if hes as boring as this thread is, then i think the two of you will be a perfect match
    says the exciting new member who has called themselves an exciting name like....wait for it.......no seriously brace yourselves...........renault. anti climatic or what..
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    yeah people are extreeemely different online to in real life dont worry about it!! just speak in real life/ on the phone rather than online/texting yeaa
 
 
 
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