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the old 'what they dont know cant hurt them' saying...

if theres a chance they wouldnt ever know would you cheat on your bf/gf?

for example in an ldr where one person is one country and the other somewhere else...what you lack in that relationship, would you make it up by cheating?

and before anyone jumps on me...NO i am not cheating and never would...was just curious

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anyone?
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Yes.
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lella_m
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No, I wouldn't.

If I couldn't handle a LDR relationship, I would end it.

I wouldn't be able to handle the guilt. Regardless if they found out or not.
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Anonymous #1
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to the person who said yes....would a part of you feel guilty? and what do feel when you think about him/her cheating?
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to the person who said yes....would a part of you feel guilty? and what do feel when you think about him/her cheating?
A small part, yes.

If she/he cheated on me, I'd dump them. Horrendous double standards, I know.
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I know what its like to be on the receiving end. Could never do that to someone, even if they never found out.
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Nope. I'm crazy about my boyfriend and am not the slightest bit interested in other people.
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ABSOLUTELY NOT. NO. No. No way. No.

In the case of an LDR, I'd make sure EVERYONE around me knows I'm not one to cheat and to smack some sense into me if they even think I'd be going down the wrong path.

No thanks. Absolutely not.
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The guilt would kill me. Also, I don't really want anyone else. So no.
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No way. If you feel the need to cheat the relationship clearly isnt worth persuing anyway.
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No. If I wanted somebody besides my boyfriend, I would be an adult and end the relationship.
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Anonymous #3
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It's leaning more towards no. I've cheated before and it feels horrible, believe me, whether it was found out or not.
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A small part, yes.

If she/he cheated on me, I'd dump them. Horrendous double standards, I know.
lol definatley double standards

just a small part? :o: what about when your together and theyre in front of you?

although tbh i guess it depends whether your in a long term relationship with them and theres prospects for it to go on for years.
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No, I wouldn't.

If I couldn't handle a LDR relationship, I would end it.

I wouldn't be able to handle the guilt. Regardless if they found out or not.
what about if your love your boyfriend but not the LDR..would you ditch the guy even if you loved him?

im sorry if im being nosey btw...just trying to get my head round something lol
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No- the people that only want sex from a relationship would. If I want a relationship, I would not have any intention of cheating. If I did, I have obviously gone in with the wrong intentions.
A relatiohship is a commitment and communication is important. If I feel the need to cheat, before anything happens I'll tell my girlfriend that I don't have the same feelings for her as I did when we were first together. So I'll break it up before then.
If you know you can get away with cheating, and therefore cheat, the sincerity of such relations must be questioned.
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No, I don't think I could.
If I wanted to sleep with somebody esle, I wouldn't be with my boyf.
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what about if your love your boyfriend but not the LDR..would you ditch the guy even if you loved him?

im sorry if im being nosey btw...just trying to get my head round something lol
No, I wouldn't

Not before trying everything possible to make it work.

If it didn't work out, then I would end the relationship.

I just won't cheat. Full stop.
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anyone?
Play your cards correctly and you don’t have to lie.

Women want to go out with attractive men but there is a bit of a supply problem. So if one comes along he happens to be seeing someone but makes clear that it’s not too serious she might (usually does) settle for the fact that she’ll have to win him for herself using her feminine charm. Then you just sit back and make her work very hard to earn you which is very enjoyable for all. Women are streets ahead of men on this tactic as men are...easily distracted when it comes to other women.

Hope this helps .
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I wouldn't be stupid enough to get into a relationship.

But if I accidentally got in one then Yes
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