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    Whoever said no is a liar. End this thread.
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    (Original post by insanetothebrain)
    Whoever said no is a liar. End this thread.
    I'm not lying. Even if I could get away with it, I'm so utterly rubbish at keeping secrets I couldn't handle even kissing somebody else and not telling my partner.
    Plus I know what it's like to be on the receiving end of finding out that your partner has cheated and chose not to tell you - I couldn't do that to another person.
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    (Original post by Doodahdoo)
    I'm not lying. Even if I could get away with it, I'm so utterly rubbish at keeping secrets I couldn't handle even kissing somebody else and not telling my partner.
    Plus I know what it's like to be on the receiving end of finding out that your partner has cheated and chose not to tell you - I couldn't do that to another person.
    :applauds:

    i think know what its like too
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    Cheating and getting away with it makes me feel like a spy, so definitely yes.
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    I've been cheated on by someone i was pretty much living with, then when I went to uni another guy basically moved in with her until I'd come back home at weekends/holidays/reading weeks etc and she'd kick him out while I was there, went on for a few months before I found out. I would never put someone through that.

    Whether or not I would get caught is irrellevant, I wouldn't do it, it's a really nasty thing to do. If you are that immature that you can't handle the physical side of being in a LDR (as in the example) or just can't control yourself on a night out, then you are far too immature to be in relationship
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    (Original post by insanetothebrain)
    Whoever said no is a liar. End this thread.
    Nope.

    Just some people have enough self-respect for themselves and self-control. Unlike others who just don't give a **** about other people.
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    Try living with it - next to impossible.
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    Anyone who's said yes or even had to think about it before they said no needs to seriously reconsider the relationship they're in and whether they deserve the person they're with.
    Cheating is sick, anyone that does it is scum, end of.
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    Yes. But then there isn't much I wouldn't do knowing I could get away with it.
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    (Original post by Melting Sugar.)
    And I'd rather be dumped than be cheated on which i'm sure goes for a lot of people.

    I actually had a dream my boyfriend cheated on me last night :p:
    Haha, I quite regularly have dreams that my boyfriend gets married to somebody else/completely blanks me but acknowledges everybody else/breaks up with me. It's quite upsetting, really, and makes it really quite difficult to get back to sleep after you've had a dream like that!

    I can understand that cheating on somebody can be a drunken mistake, quite easily, and I wouldn't necessarily break up with somebody just because they had cheated on me - but it's how you respond that dictates the relationship for me. If you lie about it, don't tell me or don't show any remorse and I find out, I'm going to be very, very upset. I'm willing to forgive mistakes, but if you don't acknowledge that it's a mistake, I'm not going to be happy. If you tell me the next day and apologise, I'll be much more willing to forgive and trust you.
    Sorry, it's just something that I feel quite strongly about :p:
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    (Original post by Doodahdoo)
    Haha, I quite regularly have dreams that my boyfriend gets married to somebody else/completely blanks me but acknowledges everybody else/breaks up with me. It's quite upsetting, really, and makes it really quite difficult to get back to sleep after you've had a dream like that!

    I can understand that cheating on somebody can be a drunken mistake, quite easily, and I wouldn't necessarily break up with somebody just because they had cheated on me - but it's how you respond that dictates the relationship for me. If you lie about it, don't tell me or don't show any remorse and I find out, I'm going to be very, very upset. I'm willing to forgive mistakes, but if you don't acknowledge that it's a mistake, I'm not going to be happy. If you tell me the next day and apologise, I'll be much more willing to forgive and trust you.
    Sorry, it's just something that I feel quite strongly about :p:
    It was a bit worrying when I couldn't tell if it was a dream or not.

    No i'm completely the same, call it being a doormat or whatever but that's the way I am - i'm sure a lot of girls would never be able to take them back no matter what the situation. Luckily I trust my boyfriend completely and he is the sort of guy that would tell me straight away that something had happened if it did..
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    (Original post by Melting Sugar.)
    It was a bit worrying when I couldn't tell if it was a dream or not.
    It's just the worst feeling, those few minutes after you wake up where it takes you a while to realise what was a dream and what wasn't! I do understand
    I also had a dream the other night that I had a really big warm jumper (it wasn't a dream about that, but I think that came into it) - and it took me until about 1.30pm to realise that I didn't, in fact, have that really big warm jumper in real life.
    I always have such vivid dreams, it's too confusing! Haha.
    Anyway, I'll stop hijacking the thread now
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    (Original post by Doodahdoo)
    I can understand that cheating on somebody can be a drunken mistake, quite easily, and I wouldn't necessarily break up with somebody just because they had cheated on me - but it's how you respond that dictates the relationship for me. If you lie about it, don't tell me or don't show any remorse and I find out, I'm going to be very, very upset. I'm willing to forgive mistakes, but if you don't acknowledge that it's a mistake, I'm not going to be happy. If you tell me the next day and apologise, I'll be much more willing to forgive and trust you.
    Sorry, it's just something that I feel quite strongly about :p:
    This is EXACTLY how I feel.
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    (Original post by Doodahdoo)
    It's just the worst feeling, those few minutes after you wake up where it takes you a while to realise what was a dream and what wasn't! I do understand
    I also had a dream the other night that I had a really big warm jumper (it wasn't a dream about that, but I think that came into it) - and it took me until about 1.30pm to realise that I didn't, in fact, have that really big warm jumper in real life.
    I always have such vivid dreams, it's too confusing! Haha.
    Anyway, I'll stop hijacking the thread now
    I have that too! I hate when you dream about something really good and a few hours after you wake up you just think "oh ****.......that wasn't real. "
    The other night I dreamed that I found a pair of jeans that fitted me (almost never happens) and I was so happy, then I went to get dressed and it occurred to me that I didn't actually own them.
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    There's a boy on my course that is really, really fit and I'd love to have sex with him. But I love my boyfriend and I'm committed to him so I wouldn't cheat.
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    No chance. I have enough respect for my partner for the thought not to cross my mind, plus I'd never forgive myself.
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    (Original post by Melting Sugar.)
    :ditto:


    And I'd rather be dumped than be cheated on which i'm sure goes for a lot of people.

    I actually had a dream my boyfriend cheated on me last night :p:
    Was it with me? :teeth:
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    no never in a million years - if i had a girlfriend even if she lived on the opposite side of the world she'd be the only girl in my life - if only i could find her
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    if i cheated on a gf then i would feel guilty when with them.
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    I'm only ever with a woman if i like her enough to not want to cheat on her.
 
 
 
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