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    (Original post by theBOON)
    I can understand prostitution. I can't understand the importance of a social life to some people though; surely not worth prostituting for?:confused:
    Im not sure the prostitution really = a socal life for her, it just happens to fund it. If fact, the way shes lieing to her friends means its the oppersit.
    If shes going to do it though, in my opinion, her problem lies with her boyfriend. I would finacaly suport a loved one rather than them doing something as such, I am not sure he knows th full extent of her "sataday job"
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    o mummmai!
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    :lolwut:, £150, :wtf:, they folks must be some weird looking guys, or you must be some fine girl
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    if your only spending the extra cash on stuff for your friends and bf then is it really worth it? they wouldnt like you any less if you didnt buy them stuff..
    mabe if your in huge debts i can understand
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I know. This is obviously why im concerned and why i started the thread. Do you not think that even if i quit now they will still find out I escorted and it will still be an issue? If i keep going then I will still earn money and still won't be high powered person. What do you reckon? Do you understand what i mean, that was explained terribly!
    Presumably, you don't have your face / something else identifiable (like a special tattoo) on any escorting-related pictures and you've been not been using your real name for work?

    If not, then the only people who actually know what you're doing are you and your clients. And they're unlikely to start talking - being a client is even more socially taboo.

    If you do, just assume that everyone knows already...

    Tax: you should pay it. They don't care how you earned it, but lots of escorts put down something else anyway. Again, see Saafe.

    Oh, nearly forgot. I know several high ranking civil servants with 'interesting' pasts (and presents, in some cases). If you ever get seriously high or in a significant position in one of the more sensitive departments (like the Cabinet Office) you'll be vetted. One of the main reasons for that is to see if you are blackmailable. This sort of thing is likely to be years away, but if you are out about having escorted while a student to pay the bills, you won't be the first one to have said that and been cleared.
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    Duuude, quit and do web cam work, you can earn the same amount of money and all you have to do is have a w***, you don't even have to see the gross guys! And you can just log off if you've had enough or get weirded out x
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    Well, I do believe the first thing to do would be to post pics, or GTFO!
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    So you're a prostitute then. And if your boyfriend "partially" knows, I'm assuming you're keeping a great deal of info from him?
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    Hi sweetheart, please ignore all of the abusive comments that have been made to you. I actually see escort girls/ladies myself. I think that they provide a valuable service. There are several reasons why girls/ladies choose escorting. Some escort to help pay bills, student fees, or maybe just to maintain a nice standard of life. I think that escort girls/ladies provide a Very Valuable Service, for a start it helps to prevent sexual crimes from being committed, which in itself is a very important service. As a man who sees escort girls, I find it very exiting, as I'm sure many escort girls/ladies also feel the same, some WGs say that they get a buzz out of having sex with a complete stranger. At the end of the day it is just sex. When my wife was alive, she once said to me, if I had sex with another woman she would obviously be devastated, but it would be a whole lot worse if I had feelings for the girl/lady that I had sex with. There are lots of WGs who choose to do escorting because they love sex, so if they love sex, and they are being paid for doing something that they love, what better could anyone want? So I say to you sweetheart, it is Your Life, and It Is Your Body, so long as you are 18 or over, and you take All of the relevent precautions, you don't have unprotected sex, you are clean bodily (and No Drugs) and you regularly get yourself sexually checked, then you have Nothing To Be Ashamed About. Take Care Sweetheart.

    Ron x
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtwJ...illionaireVEVO
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    One of the students I know of here is an escort and she earns shed loads. You couldn't meet a more clever, well balanced woman. You may want to tell your boyfriend a bit more of the truth (only you know how much he can take) but it's your life and your body: I think you should ignore the veiled insults and dodgy judgments on here.
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    I think it's highly likely that the OP is a) no longer reading here and b) no longer escorting - the original thread is four years old and the average career in sex work is rather less than that.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    After a few months at university I thought I'd take the plunge so to speak and start escorting. I'm not a sex addict or anything, or impovrished. i guess i just felt that I wanted to try something new and it could end up being one of those I regret not having done that. men pay £150 an hour to sleep with me.
    i have a boyfriend who partially knows.
    I have moral twangs. But the extra money is really useful. And i spend it all on my friends parents and boyfriend, nothing stupid on me, just treating my friends to drinks here and there and stuff.
    What shall I do? I have only told my best friend at uni, and I'm strating to become more secretive and i'm having to lie to people. It's pretty stupid.
    Any ideas?
    Thank you.
    lol u wot m8?

    This generation is really going to chit :lol:
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    (Original post by unprinted)
    I think it's highly likely that the OP is a) no longer reading here and b) no longer escorting - the original thread is four years old and the average career in sex work is rather less than that.
    how do you know what the average length of a sex work career is? Link?
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    Several years working in a sexual health promotion service for sex workers helps, but look at the main places for advertising etc. Some people are still there after many years, while many more disappear in days or weeks.
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    (Original post by Erika Eleniak)
    How can your boyfriend "partially" know?
    (Original post by Nonbeatific)
    just stop, you have a boyfriend who "partially" knows?
    (Original post by paella)
    How can he 'partially' know??? Dopes he think you sleep with other men just for kicks?
    3 alts?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm having to lie to people. It's pretty stupid
    Old thread but for anyone interested:

    There are ways of not telling the whole truth without lying e.g. describing yourself as a freelance executive PA, hostess etc (although this is deception, which is like the lesser of two evils). Personally, I don't think girls escorting is healthy, but I know for a fact that battling to spin out lies is unhealthy
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    After a few months at university I thought I'd take the plunge so to speak and start escorting. I'm not a sex addict or anything, or impovrished. i guess i just felt that I wanted to try something new and it could end up being one of those I regret not having done that. men pay £150 an hour to sleep with me.
    i have a boyfriend who partially knows.
    I have moral twangs. But the extra money is really useful. And i spend it all on my friends parents and boyfriend, nothing stupid on me, just treating my friends to drinks here and there and stuff.
    What shall I do? I have only told my best friend at uni, and I'm strating to become more secretive and i'm having to lie to people. It's pretty stupid.
    Any ideas?
    Thank you.
    how much for a blowjob?
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    (Original post by shortyprod)
    Hey

    I'm making a documentary on sex work at university, and how women are choosing this route to help fund their life and lifestyle at uni.

    It's me (Chloe) and my friend (Alex) and we are students and we just want to have a chat on the phone and stuff - all off the record to start with and we can see if you'd like to be involved in a documentary that will (hopefully) highlight female empowerment, but also how expensive uni can be and why more and more students are turning to this.

    If you're interested, then please whizz me a message!

    Thanks
    Chloe
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    This thread was created in 2010.
    It seems like users are still interested..

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