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    Please keep anonymous.

    Firstly, I am not a troll, seems everyone needs to get that out of the way posting anonymously nowadays :p:

    My problem is that I get butterflies in my stomach whenever I think of this person. A little crush has seemed to develop into a massive obsession.

    Thing is... I can never be with him... because he is straight and one of my best friends. I always thought I was straight too until I met him a while ago and literally can't stop thinking about him! He's so attractive and it caught me completely off guard. I've known him for about 5 months now and we've become good mates but inside whenever I'm not with him I just think about him and long to be with him! I thought the crush would pass over time but it's just developed more and more!

    The weird thing is when I'm with him it's just like he's a good mate again. No gay feelings or anything!

    I was just wondering if anyone has ever experienced this before? I don't REALLY know what to achieve from this post, I guess I just wanted to get it out.
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    awwwww
    thats so sweet lol
    puppy love...or infatuation maybe?
    but if hes straight and one of your best friends it might not be a good idea to risk telling him anything like this, since it obv you value your friendship alot...
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    I'm afraid you're gay

    And don't tell your friend what you feel about him because he's straight, I guess he wouldn't be happy at all...
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    (Original post by Butterflyleg)
    I'm afraid you're gay

    And don't tell your friend what you feel about him because he's straight, I guess he wouldn't be happy at all...
    Yeah, I sort of gathered that. But... it's just so weird. Literally I have NO feelings towards any other men or anything and still find women attractive. It's just something he seems to have over me. So confusing.

    And I obviously won't tell him. I was with him again today (pretty much all day) and it's just like two normal guys and even in my mind there's NO thoughts of sex/attraction/anything. As soon as he's gone it comes back.

    I'm so confused right now.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah, I sort of gathered that. But... it's just so weird. Literally I have NO feelings towards any other men or anything and still find women attractive. It's just something he seems to have over me. So confusing.

    And I obviously won't tell him. I was with him again today (pretty much all day) and it's just like two normal guys and even in my mind there's NO thoughts of sex/attraction/anything. As soon as he's gone it comes back.

    I'm so confused right now.
    I had this before. Feeling extremely intense feelings for someone when they're not around, and then normal when they are... To this day, it still baffles me.
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    you wanna see a doctor about that.
 
 
 
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