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    Say if you didn't find a girls face attractive (but she wasn't hideous), could her having confidence make up for this or make her more appealing?
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    yep it certainly can, depends on how shallow the other person is maybe? cos really people find different things attractive, and confidence is a personality trait that people tend to like.
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    Not really.
    If I want to bang someone it's because they sexually excite me.
    I'm not going to go 'ohhh ur confidence soo gets me offf awgggg'
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    no, i have to find the person attractive physically, i dont find confidence attractive tbh
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    Naw, not if they pretend they are something they aren't ("oooh look at me I'm so sexy" when they're clearly minging).
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    Yeah I'd say so as attraction is more than just looks, but looks do play a large part obviously.
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    it depends on other factors as well, it also depends on how shallow the other person is
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    After going out with a few gorgeous, but ultimately bland/insecure guys, I can definitely say that confidence is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have. I don't mean false "omg I'm so gorgeous and amazing, everyone is dirt beneath my feet" confidence, I mean guys with strong, funny personalities who are comfortable with themselves. I have been attracted to people based purely on their personality. I mean obviously you don't want to feel slightly sick after looking at them, but the novelty of stunning looks wears off after a while.
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    (Original post by fox_the_fix)
    Not really.
    If I want to bang someone it's because they sexually excite me.
    I'm not going to go 'ohhh ur confidence soo gets me offf awgggg'
    This.

    Personality is for LTR
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    Nah i prefer the shy gals, too confident girls kill it.
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    I agree with others people focus on personality more for LTR.
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    Nooooo! :nooo:
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    Shy cute girl = win

    confident (not arrogant) average girl= win
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    (Original post by whitepearlbaby)
    Naw, not if they pretend they are something they aren't ("oooh look at me I'm so sexy" when they're clearly minging).
    Yeah, maybe not confidence as such but looking happy with themselves and, more importantly, being smart/able to engage in conversation/etc. Confidence isn't much use if the person is stupid, but looks definitely aren't everything.
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    yes, definately. More so for guys because girls arent quite so shallow - which incidentally is one of the best things about being a guy.
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    (Original post by halfoflessthan50p)
    yes, definately. More so for guys because girls arent quite so shallow - which incidentally is one of the best things about being a guy.
    but as a woman you can wobble your tits for a free drink at most clubs
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    (Original post by halfoflessthan50p)
    yes, definitely. More so for guys because girls arent quite so shallow - which incidentally is one of the best things about being a guy.
    Girls are as shallow as guys I think
 
 
 
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