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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ok fair enough. but the point is that a half naked girl is gonna be all over you, you might get excited and later that night decide you wanna find sum1 to satisfy your needs. When people go on holidays, sometimes they leave their common sense behind. but only you know what your capable of.
    I don't really think that's the issue here. There is a moral line between a lapdance and actually having sex with somebody. That's like saying if you watch porn and stop half-way through you're more likely to go out and cheat.

    That said, I don't think it is okay to have a lapdance, or even be in that kind of environment if you have a girlfriend. But that is a very personal thing and I'm sure lots of people feel differently. Sadly for the OP his morals don't seem to correlate with that of his girlfriend.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    But it is only a dance I aren't ****ing the lass. Am I?
    what a great way to make your girlfriend feel like the most treasured and beautiful woman in your eyes right now.
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    (Original post by sexyguy)
    Just do it and don't tell her. It wont hurt her if she doesnt know!

    Idiot.
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    (Original post by thisisyesterday)
    Idiot.
    Blah blah blah. Clearly a chick. Seriously my dear, you don't have to tell your partner everything.
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    (Original post by sexyguy)
    Blah blah blah. Clearly a chick. Seriously my dear, you don't have to tell your partner everything.
    Idiot.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    what are j's?

    joints why are u anonymous askin that?
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    I wouldn't mind my boyfriend having a lapdance, it's not like he's going to run away with her or anything.
    Everyone needs a bit of alternative excitement now and again, it's just good fun if you trust each other.
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    (Original post by Lucy May)
    I wouldn't mind my boyfriend having a lapdance, it's not like he's going to run away with her or anything.
    Everyone needs a bit of alternative excitement now and again, it's just good fun if you trust each other.

    its got nowt to do with trust, i trust my bf not to run off with a lap dancer but that still doesnt mean i want someone grinding in my bfs lap, the only one that should be touching my bf in a sexual way is me
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    (Original post by inksplodge)
    It's a bit of fun. It's not like anything is going to come out of it. If my boyfriend wants a lapdance then so be it, but I can do it better. :awesome:
    Personally I would only accept this answer. :p:
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    (Original post by sexyguy)
    Blah blah blah. Clearly a chick. Seriously my dear, you don't have to tell your partner everything.
    You have the most ironic name on TSR I think..... more so even than Adonis.

    Anyway, OP, your gf is going to finish with you if you get a lapdance? The rights and wrongs are neither here nor there, its her decision, her choice. The real question is is your gf worth more than a 10 minuet lapdance? Although if your going to Amsterdam and dont care about you gf you may as well go all the way, some of the girls are beautiful.
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    :lolwut:

    I have had a lapdance, and :lolwut: would be my approximate expression if my boyfriend had broken up with me. And I certainly wouldn't care if he did :no:
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    Maturity, if you were a girl people over here would tell you that your partner is insecure and controlling as it is just an innocent lapdance. They would also tell you to dump your partner.
 
 
 
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