Something a friend said:
That's why I hate relationships. People put on acts until they know you've invested enough in them not to dump them right away when they show who they really are.
No one really sees what goes on in relationships, except people who aren't in them.
Do you agree too?
It's true, in some cases. Love makes you blind.
i must that is soooooo true!
ummm, I don't think I'm ever not myself.. I just can be careful with which parts of my personality I introduce first... its like making a good first impression...
I wouldn't be with someone I couldn't be myself around.. then again I think its good to be slightly not myself and gain some feminine charms! :P
I think that's too cynical. I don't think it's an act to deliberately trap you in relationship; things are just easier at first because you're both putting in a lot of effort and there's no issues to deal with.
Most people pretend to be what they think you want them to be but they can't keep that act up forever and they start to show themselves after a few months. People should just be themselves from the outset.
That's true until you get a relationship that just works, and then suddenly you both stop acting and fall in love with the real person.
no i dont agree, ive always been myself in relationships from day 1, i dont see the point in pretending you are something you arnt