little bit worried

im a little worried, basically i went on hol 2 weeks ago and i had unprotected sex with a guy there. however he didnt come inside me. im on the pill and should have got my period today, but i havent...aargh! i took all pills ok, and didnt miss any so i shouldnt be pregnant so was wondering if stress would affect whether i got my period or not?! im stressing out majorly!! hmm..any advice much appreciated..x

Reply 1

matrix99

lauren23

im on the pill and should have got my period today,

2day is not finished yet.. stil got a few hours, just wait :ninja:

Reply 2

Luize

13

Yes.
Stress can make you period late.
You took the pill you should be fine.
Just go get checked out for STI's and you should be fine.

Reply 3

Harv616

9

lauren23

im a little worried, basically i went on hol 2 weeks ago and i had unprotected sex with a guy there. however he didnt come inside me.

Btw it dosent matter if he cums in you or not, you can still get pregnant

Reply 4

Happy1

14

i'm on the pill and my periods sometimes come a day late.

You NEED to get a pregnancy test whether it comes or not... and you DEFINITELY need to see a doctor. Having unprotected sex leaves you open to all sorts of STIs.

PLease see a doctor and get checked for STIs because you dont know what this guy had.

Reply 5

lauren23

OP

2

now im stressing out even more!!

Reply 6

Gem

14

Having unprotected sex isn't a good idea, I'm sure you know that. BUT yes stress can make your period late, and I know it's easy to say chill out, but hard ot do when you're worried about a possible pregnancy. If you've kept taking the pill and not forgot, then you shouldn't be pregnant. You need to think about getting tested for STI's just to put your mind at rest about that side of unprotected sex. I hope you're ok :smile:

Reply 7

username9303

3

no point telling her unprotected sex isnt a good idea :confused:

its already happened lol

ollie :biggrin:

Reply 8

lauren23

OP

2

i was probably being naive here, but he told me it was his first time he had ever had sex with out a condom..which led me to think there wouldnt be a big chance of STIs. god that looks stupid when written down!

Reply 9

ponjavic

1

lauren23

i was probably being naive here, but he told me it was his first time he had ever had sex with out a condom..which led me to think there wouldnt be a big chance of STIs. god that looks stupid when written down!

Just go check yourself and stop worrying about it.

Reply 10

Luize

13

You can't trust what people tell you. Sex feels better without a condom...people will lie to get it if they really want it.
You should get tested anyway just to be safe.

Reply 11

Harv616

9

lauren23

i was probably being naive here, but he told me it was his first time he had ever had sex with out a condom..which led me to think there wouldnt be a big chance of STIs. god that looks stupid when written down!

Never trust a guys you meet when on holiday.

Reply 12

Gem

14

olliemccowan

no point telling her unprotected sex isnt a good idea :confused:

its already happened lol

ollie :biggrin:

lol OK then for future reference :p:

Reply 13

lauren23

OP

2

lol-with how i feel right now, sex is the last thing on my mind! abstinence is the answer!

Reply 14

Lauren Hart

3

i think safe sex is the answer really! My perioid moved a day further in my cycle after i had sex, which like you was unprotected, but i know he doesnt have anything nasty and t take my pill as clock work. It is largely stress related when you're late, but also your body changing hormonally etc. Would defo get checked out though, coz he may have been lying! and really, genital warts, not nice....

Reply 15

bret

12

my old bird missed her period by a week and i was the one stressing since i'd cummed in her during the few days she could get pregnant and for the whole month before come to think of it.

I was the one fretting. she just took the test and had a go at me for stressing her. Then again it wasn't the most sensbile thing i'd ever done (she had taken the risk loads before- wtf) but I won't do it again.

Reply 16

DeLboY

Thats the problem with holiday flings. Neither of you know each other for ****, so you can be whoever you want to be... and most blokes will tell a girl anything to get you in the sack.

Of course, im sure he'd never had unprotected sex before... :rolleyes:

Reply 17

Amlea

1

just chilll...breath...u could be ok!

Reply 18

Flicker

13

you need to get checked for STIs - sorry but that line is the oldest in the book, and even if it was the first time he had intercourse without a condom he could have caught something through oral.

I had a massive stress a few months ago when my period was "late" (ie it hadn't come by lunchtime the day it was due!) i came on at 8pm and it was fine...nothing had even changed that month - same boyfriend, same pill, taken it religiously - for some reason i just got worried. now i just remind myself that it may come later in the day and not to stress for a few days at least - i just put it completely out of my mind!

i hope it comes soon...try and relax. have a bath or read a good book that you can lose yourself in. also, just being on holiday and a change in your routine could make your period come a day later with no problems. don't worry yet!

(but do bear it in mind for the future, use a condom!)

Reply 19

daydreaming

1

apparently if you're stressing about being pregnant your body starts to act like it is pregnant, missed periods etc.
that could be totally made up of course

little bit worried

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