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    (Original post by SmileyGurl13)
    This is actually me I thought I'd typed that for a moment it sounds like something I'd say! I feel this all the time, like I feel hurt cos my best friend has a boyfriend I don't so she's always with him which emphasises that I'm single. So I'm always alone I don't think I'm that bada catch :/ but I guess I am.... Well anyway I feel the same as you so feel free to send me a private message if you wanna chat anytime
    Thanks Yeah most of my friends have boyfriends and talk about them quite a lot. I know they don't mean to, but it just makes me feel lonely that ive never had that with someone
    I don't want to sound jealous, but i'm getting that way..oh well just going to wait until uni then hopefully i'll be surprised by someone
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im the same. I have had one girlfriend (im male ) and nothing much came of that. Im 18 now, and still single and hate it. Im shy as well and I want to feel a connection with somone and have a great time with. It will happen eventually!
    A couple of years ago I felt like this. Only had a couple of short term relationships and it was a bit frustrating. But I found a guy within a week of being at Uni and we've really connected, just started dating last week after a lot of socialising. I've dropped out which makes things difficult but we speak every night and have plans to go long distance if we can. I find its best not to think about being single and wanting a boyfriend, then you can be natural. Natural is best, they see you for who you really are :woo:
    I'm sure things will improve. Don't be afraid to speak your mind and be who you want to be.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why? :/
    Isn't it obvious? Anyway, I'm 19, have never had a girlfriend, however this is down to not even trying to get one because I have (or had) a strange fear of rejection. I've never tried flirting because I don't really know how to do it and have been too embarrassed to ask anyone how. But perhaps that's for another topic. Since I'm on a gap year, I'm hoping that when university starts I can correct everything I did horribly wrong in school/college. I had a friend who treated single life like living some kind of hell, which really angered me. Needless to say there were points where he became suicidal, but that's a long story.

    Yes I think about lacking a girlfriend all the time, but I find something to laugh it off. Sometimes I listen to some music I like, sometimes I just take the mick out of my own fears. It's quite odd really, but the point is to not get yourself down about it and just cheer up. You've only live 15-20% of your life, there's still plenty of time to get things the way you want them to be.
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    Hi I totally understand what you're saying, and I admit, I did used to feel like that sometimes - although I never let anyone know But I am not as confident as you and I dont always feel very good about myself, although my Family tell me to believe otherwise, I just feel I need someone - although I Adore my Family, preferably not related - to think I'm beautiful and truly mean it, not just make fun of me Now, since my so-called best friend ditched me I dont bother with ppl @ skool anymore, just tend to go to the library or computer room to avoid people, I've become so anti-people orientated it's unbelieveable, and it probably comes from having been bullied when I was younger So now i'm waaayyyy too concious about what others think, although, to be honest, whatever they think doesnt actually mean anything to me, unless it's positive, of course lol - I also get sore throats and things a lot and miss a lot of skool anyway, although I do do lots of Horsey/Animal orientated things, so now I'm more of an Animal-person than a people-person, which I think is why boys in particular arent interested, although there's far more interesting to me than meets the eye, ppl cant be bothered being nice to me (although now I'm sure I'd just get all embarassed and go red and shy, even if I wished I didnt - which is what usually happens :P) - But you seem like a confident person, so I'm sure when you dont worry about it anymore and concerntrate on everything else that's positive that's going on in your life, then someone will find you @ least, that's how I've been told it goes, so far no luck for me but that might be partly my own fault for being so shy and reclusive Just get out there and enjoy Life, dont always think about being lonely, be positive, and I've been told being happy changes the way others look @ you
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    Don't worry, it seems like it's just an age thing. As you get older everyone starts to mingle more...it'll happen
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    Boyfriends can get so boring though. In my experience, sigh
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    yeah true as you get older you gain experience/confidence then it all goes the way you want it to
    anyways not a harm getting to know each other pvt mess me if u wnt a chat
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks Yeah most of my friends have boyfriends and talk about them quite a lot. I know they don't mean to, but it just makes me feel lonely that ive never had that with someone
    I don't want to sound jealous, but i'm getting that way..oh well just going to wait until uni then hopefully i'll be surprised by someone
    I had that attitude with sixth form though and nothing has happened so far there was this girl but then he got with this complete bish now I hate him xD :P

    Hmm yeah I know how you feel about htem talking baout them 24/7 cos once I was at a sleepover with all girls who had boyfriends and they were all moaning about how annoying they were and I was like 'at least you have aboyfriend to love you' I felt really upset but then when my single friend came I was like 'THANK THE LORDY' :P Lol, try and find a close friend of yours who's single and talk to her about it undoubtedly she'll feel exactly the same way as you :P and then you can moan to each other about it and try and set each oher up with someone
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    by the way people im new to this website. would be nice getting to no people
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    Someone will come and find you eventually (: happened too me but i never got the hint until she liked some other guy but oh well it's all experience at the end of the day once you have a boyfriend you will be like all your mates and wish you never had one once they hurt you or something ... to be fair uni is probably one of them worst times to be in a relationship if it's going to turn you in to a mess.
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    (Original post by LuisaH)
    what's so bad about being single? you can enjoy your life even without a guy!
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    (Original post by Indieboohoo)
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    Ive tried to have that attitude for the last few years, but now its wearing off and I would just like to know what it feels like to have a boyfriend/be with a guy I really like, and that cares for me too
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    Any Girl in Swansea wanna meet up Norfolk Street, Mount Pleasant for a Good Doggin !?

    Please...i'm desperate !!

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    post a pic and you'll deffo get offers on this site
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    (Original post by bird_106)
    by the way people im new to this website. would be nice getting to no people
    Hi!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ive tried to have that attitude for the last few years, but now its wearing off and I would just like to know what it feels like to have a boyfriend/be with a guy I really like, and that cares for me too
    How old are you?
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    lol losers.....
 
 
 
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