Didn't think I'd ever post on here...
Been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months, probably the longest relationship I've had which has been continuous. I had a gap year last year and was constantly in and out of relationships because I guess I wanted to find the right person, and didn't mess around. Anyway, metmy boyfriend, literally started to love him as we started going out, he felt the same way and didn't hesitate to tell me. He was the perfect person for me and just an all round amazing boyfriend. He was respectful, kind, thoughtful, funny, everything that I wanted I guess. So it progressed, he used to pick me up once a week and I'd drive up to see him (about 40 miles distance each way) and then something happened with my parents not liking him and obviously it wasn't the best idea for him to pick me up. But even now he's met them and everything is fine, he didn't continue to do that. I just thought that was a thoughtful, kind gesture, which he didn't seem to want to do. I guess I might've seen the real person? He continually swares around me, in public...it's embarassing and I'm definetly not a prude I just don't like stuff like that. He's not courteous, he'll let me driveh ome at 2am when I have work at 8. He'll also arrange to go out with his mates on a day when we would go out, and then change his mind and expect me to drop everything. I guess I don't feel the same way, I mean I still love him, nothing could change that, but I feel like I'm being used in something so important as this type of relationship. I guess I just want an outside view?
What should I do?