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    so ive hooked up with this guy a few of times now, it was a one night stand thats turned into no-strings sex, which im fine with an all, but (this is gonna sound really pathetic i know...) im suposed to be seeing him tonight and ive started my period. n obviously i dont want to be shagging him, but im up for giving oral or whatever, so how do i tell him that? if it was a boyfriend it would be different, id tell him straight out, but i feel embarrassed telling him, cause its not like we're that close :confused:
    so yeh: ladies, how do u tell a guy who you know virtually nothing about that u cant have sex with him cause ur on ur period without scaring him off? and guys, would u feel hard done by if u turned up expecting sex and only got oral?

    might just tell him ive got other plans lol...
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    try hinting it to him if you don't feel comfortable telling him straight

    try like "it's not the right time" or something like that

    I'm preeeeetty sure he knows that women have periods every month. Just say it's the time of the month so you're 'limited' as to what you can do together.

    Why is that so embarrassing!?

    Just say not today he'll guess, in the end :P

    Hey Kasey it's me.
    Funny how I stumbled across this thread lol, coincidence.
    Anyway I understand, just make sure you bring some lube.

    Cya later
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