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    I've been having sex with my boyfriend for over a year now, but in the last couple of months, it's started to get really sore.

    It started a couple of months ago when he would stop in the middle and start again, which made me sore. This made me want to have sex with him less, so we were doing it less and less often.

    The last two times though, it's been really sore right from the beginning. I'm never usually sore otherwise, it's only when we're having sex.

    Any ideas why this is happening?

    Not wet enough? Lube is a wonderful thing.

    I agree with Ilora, try lube. Also try some different positions, some positions tend to 'rub' more than most making you sore, and if you tend to stop and start a lot you kinda dry out in between, you relax again and it's like starting from scratch...

    It might by cystitis or thrush or another infection too. Won't hurt to get checked out, and if its not then maybe spend more time on slow and relaxed foreplay and get some lube.
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