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    If you're ever not in the mood for sex but your partner is, what do you tell them? What's your excuse? How do you let them down without making them feel like they're not attractive and you just don't feel like it?

    And have you ever had sex when you're not in the mood? I don't feel like I should just to please the other person... Is that selfish?
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    "I'm not in the mood"
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    Go away
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    Just say you're tired or something to that effect.
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    Say you don't think you can satisfy them right now
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    "I'm not in the mood"
    sometimes I do it anyway
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    I'm always in the mood.
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    I'm never in the mood. I just do it anyway because I know it'll make him happy.
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    SLAP THEM!

    No, only kidding I could use the cliché "If they care, they'll understand".. But t's true that it doesn't always go that way...

    There's no point in doing something you don't want to, so I guess if you've got to hurt their feelings a little bit it's fine.. they'll bounce back..
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    (Original post by Keoje)
    "I'm not in the mood"
    This.
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    Just say you're not in the mood.
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    I'm tired.
    I have a head ache.
    I don't feel like having sex.
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    Say you have temporary aids.
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    I'm tired, I just want to lie down......you can do all the work. :rolleyes:
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    Let's just cuddle
    works better than 'get your dirty hands off me'
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    I always do it anyway, I love the closeness. 9/10 I'm in the mood anyway.

    Although, "the mood" can take on different forms. There's the horny one, the sensual one and the fun one! :]

    If I'm not in the first one, then I'm in the second & third one normally!
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    I'm always in the mood... unless I'm very ill, in and it's pretty obvious why I won't be having sex, and so it doesn't come up.
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    I always am, so I have never had to even think about it :awesome:. But I guess I'd just say "No gypsy, no" or "I'm not in the mood".
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    Im always in the mood...

    Even once I was really ill, temperature, feeling weak etc, not eating, was stuck in bed for the whole day, feeling cold and then sweating etc etc, really felt like ****. When GF came to bed, and the kissing started, it was as if i gave myself a shot of adrenaline, all the pain went away until we finished our business
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    (Original post by _lauren)
    Just say you're not in the mood.
    I'd still do you. With that face, it's a crime not to.
 
 
 
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