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Personality great but looks not so much watch

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    I feel horrible for even thinking this but I've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now and I love her a lot and she has an amazing personality but I've started to feel like I don't find her physically attractive any more. I don't find her really ugly or anything but it's just that when we are doing sexual things I find it hard to be properly attracted to her and I'll focus on other parts of her body.

    She's a bit chubby and that was fine at the beginning but she's gained a bit more weight and, I don't know, it just has made her look less attractive to me. I've been going to the gym quite a bit recently and I did ask if she wanted to go swimming with me (because she really likes swimming) but she just made excuses that she is too busy and then sort of got upset because I was implying she had gotten really fat or something.

    I just don't know what to do. I mean I don't want to break up with her for something like this because I'd feel terrible and I do love her and she has a great personality but just not really that good looking.
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    You obviously don't love her then you tard otherwise that wouldn't matter
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    Fat girls aint worth your time brudda
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    Chase her with a taser.
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    Op stand in front of a mirror naked and look at yourself, she more than likely sees faults with you but just accepts them?
 
 
 
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