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    I have major trust issues and massive walls up that stops me from getting close to people.

    i have something in my head that tells me guys only want sex, guys will lie to you to get what they want and that nobodys to be trusted. i dont choose 2 be like this. i cant help it. it gets in the way of me forming relationships and i never get into relationships because i have these walls up around me to protect myself from getting hurt.

    any suggestions on how to overcome this?
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    It's purely the fact that you're afraid of getting hurt and you're allowing your stereotype of a typical man help this.

    Not all blokes are heartless, lust-filled *******s you know. :yes:
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    i know..i can't help it though!
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    You sound just like my ex-girlfriend. I would have never hurt her, though. In the end, I didn't dare hold her hand or anything. And we'd only kiss after the end of our dates which usually consisted of talking. I still miss her.
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    OP I feel exactly the same sometimes.
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    dont be such a bel lend?
 
 
 
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