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Chatting Online To Perverted Men

I am 18, just turned 18 and today for some weird reason I went onto a chat room. I ended up chatting to a number of peope and more often then not the conversation turned to sex.

Now intsead of blocking the user, I began to talk in a pervy way too. The people I was talking to were in their 40's (older then my parents!). It's weird as I do not in any way fancy these people. In real life I'm so shallow and would never even consider talking to someone this way unless they were really good looking and of course much younger. I am so picky in real life, no way would I have a dirty chat with these old men.

So, now I'm feeling really quite sick with myself. I have a boyfriend so it feels wrong to even think about talking the way I was.
Would people think less of me now for talking like a sicko?

In real life I'm never like this. I guess the as people didn't know who I really was I could say what I wanted.
Reply 1
I guess everyone has their secret fantasties and it's best to look at this that way. I personally wouldn't have any problems carrying on with this - you're an adult and it's not hurting anyone (except possibly your boyfriend). To keep yourself safe, stay anonymous by using a fake name and address, send no photos, especially with your face in and never accept any offers to meet or anything of the kind, though I'm sure you are sensible enouhg to know all of this already.

With regards to your boyfriend, it's down to you whether you tell him what you've been doing or not, and only your own conscience cna decide.

Of course, if you stopped doing it altogether, you wouldn't need to tell you boyfriend, and just see it as an experiment and no more.
People will think less of you if you blab about it to them. Keep shtum and relax. You're making a mountain out of a molehill
Reply 3
Are you really happy with your boyfriend if you have to go to online chat rooms talking to sex-starved men trying to satisfy their libidos?
OP, your internet persona sucks :ninja:
Reply 5
I used to do this to get runescape membership PINs for free. I pretended i was a 15 year old girl and all these old guys wanted "me" to go on cam. I said my dads webcam needed a PIN to turn on and got them to text the number and give me a PIN. It cost like £7 each time but they fell for it, then i just signed out lol... They deserve losing their money trying to get a 15 year old on cam.
Reply 6
Pickford
I used to do this to get runescape membership PINs for free. I pretended i was a 15 year old girl and all these old guys wanted "me" to go on cam. I said my dads webcam needed a PIN to turn on and got them to text the number and give me a PIN. It cost like £7 each time but they fell for it, then i just signed out lol... They deserve losing their money trying to get a 15 year old on cam.


Your signature made me melt.

Also I used to do this a lot. It was pretty much something to do in the days before I discovered free porn/erotica/a girlfriend. I always felt...well, still feel...really guilty and dirty and it didn't help that I was confused about my sexuality at the time...but to be honest, OP, I think a lot of people do it. Well obviously, we can't be the only ones! If you enjoy it then that's fine, as long as you're safe and sensible about it, but you might want to think about your boyfriend...are you happy with him? Is there anything in your relationship that's pushing you to go talk about sex online? I mean, I can't imagine his reaction to this news being fantastic to be honest.
You are just as perverted as the men you were talking too.
Reply 8
Nothing perverted about wanting to have sex with girls.
yes i am one of them
Reply 10
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Reply 11
Original post by Forsaken
Your signature made me melt.

Also I used to do this a lot. It was pretty much something to do in the days before I discovered free porn/erotica/a girlfriend. I always felt...well, still feel...really guilty and dirty and it didn't help that I was confused about my sexuality at the time...but to be honest, OP, I think a lot of people do it. Well obviously, we can't be the only ones! If you enjoy it then that's fine, as long as you're safe and sensible about it, but you might want to think about your boyfriend...are you happy with him? Is there anything in your relationship that's pushing you to go talk about sex online? I mean, I can't imagine his reaction to this news being fantastic to be honest.


Original post by morecambebay
You are just as perverted as the men you were talking too.


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