clingy girls, am i the only one to love 'em

am i the only guy in the world that loves clingy girls, i like being called, and not always doing the calling, i like girls that wana spend alot of time with me. none of my mates like that atall they just wana get some action i think, but i dunno. who else lieks clingy girls?

Reply 1

hypomania

10

hm not me.... though I'm a girl, I guess my opinion doesn't count.

Reply 2

Zurich

9

Define clingy?

From what you describe, you don't mind having a girl that shows that she loves you... and neither do I.

Reply 3

BlackHawk

17

hate hate hate them. I've had bad experiences though. Like one breaking down in tears in a club because apparently I wasn't talking to her enough. :confused:

Reply 4

Naxalite

Yeh, my girl doesn't care about me... i'm the one doing everything... FFS makes me even more mad at her... te one thing she does do is make me angry.

Reply 5

tktaylor6

OP

yea it makes me wonder too, if im always callign her and shes never callign me, is it a mutual attraction here? lol

Reply 6

Naxalite

its like i love her but i wish she would do things for me, grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr even madder now

Reply 7

veryrandom

10

I'm a girl and I think being clingy requires alot of time and energy. I have the time but I'm too lazy. I settle for being aloof. It's easier and comes more naturally. Clingyness to me signals weakness.

Reply 8

tktaylor6

OP

i dunno i would call clignly fondness rather than weakness

Reply 9

Mean Mr. Mustard

Clingy girls are scary.

Reply 10

Adhsur

15

When you use the word "clingy", it automatically means something negative. I hate the word, especially when it's used to describe a partner who obviously cares a lot.

Reply 11

BlackHawk

17

I wouldn't say clingy describes a partner who cares alot. The experience I posted, it was my ex. We were in a club I went over and chatted for a bit then went back to my mates. She came up and slapped me and went mental saying I wasn't talking to her enough. That in my opinion is clingy.

Reply 12

DeLboY

I think you're getting confused betwen clingy and smitten/caring
There's a big difference.

A girl who loves spending time with you, phones you often and generally doesn't like to be apart from you is not necessarily clingy at all.

Clingy is when you are on the recieving end of a hissy fit if they are not invited to go EVERYWHERE you go at all times; are prone to serious jealousy if you even breathe near another girl; and make sure that everyone in the nearest vicinity knows that you are hers.. every five minutes..

Steer well clear of these..

Reply 13

Né Stig

15

A girl who is 'clingy' is nice as long as she knows that sometimes you need your space.
I quite like it, although as most guys will say, it can become a little unbareable.

Reply 14

Zurich

9

BlackHawk

I wouldn't say clingy describes a partner who cares alot. The experience I posted, it was my ex. We were in a club I went over and chatted for a bit then went back to my mates. She came up and slapped me and went mental saying I wasn't talking to her enough. That in my opinion is clingy.

Well yes, but the situation the guy who started the thread described sounds more like a girl that cares than a girl that clings.

Reply 15

tktaylor6

OP

ahhh ok i dunno just friends have refered to some previosu gf's as clingy and i have thought that they were just caring

Reply 16

supervin

It depends on what you mean by clingy and the extent. I love clingy AND selfless girls who want to spend time and approach you just for the sake of it. But they mustn't be controlling - demanding lots in reciprocation etc. It's important that these girls are naturally clingy and not because of some psychological dependence or low self-esteem. Oh and clingy exclusively of course, and not to every Tom, Dick and Harry.

Reply 17

Naxalite

I want a clingy girl :frown:

Reply 18

Mean Mr. Mustard

Adhsur

When you use the word "clingy", it automatically means something negative. I hate the word, especially when it's used to describe a partner who obviously cares a lot.

there is a HUGE difference between someone caring alot and someone being clingy.

My girlfriend I know cares about me alot, but the last thing she is is clingy, we both know we have our own lives apart from each other, and we are both happy to let each other live those lives, I know she wouldn't get upset if i went out with my friends without her or something similar. (well, me living in Manchester and her in Oxford during term time means we would be in ALOT of trouble if either of us were clingy) A clingy girl would get upset.

Reply 19

supervin

DeLboY

Clingy is when you are on the recieving end of a hissy fit if they are not invited to go EVERYWHERE you go at all times; are prone to serious jealousy if you even breathe near another girl; and make sure that everyone in the nearest vicinity knows that you are hers.. every five minutes..

Steer well clear of these..

Clingy + controlling is a complete nightmare.

clingy girls, am i the only one to love 'em

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