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    ok, so i'm away for 2 months on a kind of placement thing, its about 2 hours away from my normal home. whilst up here however i have met a guy who i really like, we've been texting alot and have met up a lot aswell. the only problem is i have to go back home in about 4/5 weeks =[, i'm just becoming so attatched to him though and i know when it comes to the end of this placement im gonna be gutted. i know its going to happen yet i'm still letting myself fall further and further for him....why am i doing this to myself?
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    2 hours is not much . i know of people who have LDRs when the other is in another country for a year. honestly, let it go and go with the flow, if you like him dont throw it away because you are worrying about getting attatched or living too far away etc. if its meant to happen, it will happen, feel lucky
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    yep just go with the flow
    dont worry about things at the moment
    and see how he wants the relationship to go aswell b4 jumping to conclusions.
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    It could work, 2 hours is not that far away and if your both into eachother enough it will work.
    I've been with my bf over a year now and he's about an hour and a half away at uni [:
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    anon or delete plz

    ok, so i'm away for 2 months on a kind of placement thing, its about 2 hours away from my normal home. whilst up here however i have met a guy who i really like, we've been texting alot and have met up a lot aswell. the only problem is i have to go back home in about 4/5 weeks =[, i'm just becoming so attatched to him though and i know when it comes to the end of this placement im gonna be gutted. i know its going to happen yet i'm still letting myself fall further and further for him....why am i doing this to myself?
    It's better to have loved and lost than neverto have loved at all :yep:

    Worst scenario is that you fall for him massively and then it comes to an end. While this can feel horrific, it is something that you eventually come to terms with. However, if you both want ot take it further then there's lots of things you can do to make it work as a LDR or even look to the future.

    Go with the flow and don't worry for now Work it out when it happens. Have fun X
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    (Original post by shorty.loves.angels)
    It's better to have loved and lost than neverto have loved at all :yep:

    Worst scenario is that you fall for him massively and then it comes to an end. While this can feel horrific, it is something that you eventually come to terms with. However, if you both want ot take it further then there's lots of things you can do to make it work as a LDR or even look to the future.

    Go with the flow and don't worry for now Work it out when it happens. Have fun X
    I disagree! But OP you travel one hour, he travels one hour, you meet in the middle and hmm that sounds too much like an innuendo but you get the point...
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    I'm in an LDR with over 5,000 miles and 8 hours between us.

    Two hours ISN'T BAD AT ALL
 
 
 
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