Text or not to text?! And what to do about this guy! Watch
I've really liked this guy, but never thought he would like me, he's so popular and busy all the time with friends. We have walked home together after night outs twice, we're not really in the same friendship circles but they do overlap a bit and that's why we were out together. Both times he's held my hand because it's been cold.
Saturday night we got back to halls and hugged, and then he kissed me.
Sunday night he sent me a text (for the first time) just saying how was your day, and then didnt reply to my reply.
Today I've seen him around uni 3 times and we've just smiled and not actually spoken at all.
How do I go about not falling into a friend zone or losing it? Am I just worrying and should give it more time? Does he regret it?!
I hate how boys can make a 19 year old feel 13 again
"it's cold" is not a reason for hand-holding otherwise my spideysenses are tingling. . why not ask him down the pub? In a casual way like. .
Both times he's held my hand because it's been cold.
Call him arrange to meet. If he's busy or whatever then tell him to get back to you suggesting a time when he's free. If he does then all systems go, if he doesn't then he's not interested - therefore move on.
Wait for him to contact you. If he likes you, he will. Honestly, it seems like he doesn't.
Thanks, you all make it sound so simple!
I just think though cos we've only had one really long conversation I can't be sure about anything and just dont know how to approach anything. Don't want to invite them to do stuff alone if that makes sense.
Surely he would have tried to speak to me in uni, and would have text me back? I was quite quick with my reply I suppose, wonder if that had anything to do with it. Eek!
Final thoughts: send a text to him asking if he wants to pretend we never kissed? or just ignore it all? Thanks everyone..
How do I go about not falling into a friend zone or losing it?