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    (Original post by partoftheweekend)
    Maybe her and her mate are both fat and ugly?
    Yeah, perhaps :rofl: Well, at least this is the most rational explanation xD
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    (Original post by Butterflyleg)
    Am I the only one who's absolutely astonished that a straight guy doesn't want to be pleasured by two hot women? http://static.thestudentroom.co.uk/i...milies/mmm.gif
    To be fair, there is no evidence that either of them are attractive.
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    (Original post by RNBen)
    To be fair, there is no evidence that either of them are attractive.
    So why is she his gf?
    I wouldn't want to be with someone who's not attractive to me. It makes no sense to me.
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    (Original post by NW86)
    Yup. You'd be surprised when it really comes down to it, and you ignore all the front, how many guys wouldn't want one.
    That's actually very true, guys are human, the same as girls. Guys generally aren't these sex robots they're built up to be by the media. I doubt either gender would enjoy seeing their (much loved) other half getting off with someone else!

    I for one enjoy the occasional thought of a threesome, but then I realise that I'd probably end up hating my partner after.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. I adore him and I love to be with him, but our sex life is nowadays boring and predictable.

    A week ago, I asked my boyfriend if he'd be up for a threesome to spice up our relationship. I even told him I knew a girl that would love to help out. He looked at me like I was a freak and told me there was no way he'd have a threesome with me and another girl.

    We haven't had sex since that night and he's been avoiding the subject ever since. The sad truth? I can't be with a guy who doesn't satisfy me in bed. I think it's fundamental for any healthy relationship.

    I know this will help us move forward. How can I convince him to do it??
    'Convincing' him will never help. If its something he doesn't want to do and he does it, he may well end up regretting it and resenting you. There are plenty of ways to spice up your sex life without the need for another person. Take a trip down to Ann Summers, google some information, or just ask him what his fantasies are.
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    (Original post by Butterflyleg)
    Am I the only one who's absolutely astonished that a straight guy doesn't want to be pleasured by two hot women? :mmm:
    No you're not.

    He must be gay. Perhaps that's the problem:curious:
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    What the hell is this threesome idea??!! Where are the girls on TSR who used to be very annoyed about their boyfriends watching too much porn or always looking to other pretty girls?? I would like to know how these girls would react if their boyfriends suggest a threesome??

    And I can not understand how a girl who "adores her boyfriend", as you say, can feel happy while saying him sleeping with another woman in front of her. I'm a man and I find the idea really gross...:eek:
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    Thanks for the input, I have several things in mind:

    1. We've already tried sex toys, role plays, kamasutra et al. and our sex life is still boring and predictable.

    2. I'm not fat or ugly, thankyouverymuch.

    3. Neither is my friend.

    4. When I put the idea out there for his consideration, I made it clear that he wouldn't be having sexual intercourse with her, but me. He would be touching and watching (maybe kissing), but no penetration.

    5. He's not gay.

    I thought having a threesome was every guy's fantasy. I guess I was wrong.

    I really don't know what to do anymore because after all the previous attempts to spice up our sex life, I'm still bored with our under-the-sheets performance. He knows it, we've spoken about it.

    I love him, I don't want to leave him, but having bad sex is worse than having none.
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    And yes, I meant I'll be having sex with her while he's watching, for those who're wondering about my last post.
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    i cant ever imagine threesomes in a proper relationship ever working...
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    You say he doesn't satisfy you in bed but I bet you just lie there like a limp log.
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    god give me ya number lol ad be fine with it aslong as some other guy wasnt involved, wouldnt want another lads ****** in my vacinity if ya know wt am saying lol
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    What is wrong with your boyfriend? If a girl suggested a 3some to most boys they would jump at the chance (My Bf certainly would- hasn't really stopped suggesting it since day one).
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    (Original post by Blue Rose Bowl)
    You say he doesn't satisfy you in bed but I bet you just lie there like a limp log.
    Awww, sweets! Are you asking me this because of your own experience?
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    (Original post by elldee)
    What is wrong with your boyfriend? If a girl suggested a 3some to most boys they would jump at the chance (My Bf certainly would- hasn't really stopped suggesting it since day one).
    I don't know what's wrong with him!!
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    (Original post by elldee)
    What is wrong with your boyfriend? If a girl suggested a 3some to most boys they would jump at the chance (My Bf certainly would- hasn't really stopped suggesting it since day one).
    Surprisingly, some guys are actually into the whole being faithful/committed thing.
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    (Original post by Delta Usafa)
    Surprisingly, some guys are actually into the whole being faithful/committed thing.
    well in this case

    it's watch but don't touch

    so imagine it as real-life porn
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. I adore him and I love to be with him, but our sex life is nowadays boring and predictable.

    A week ago, I asked my boyfriend if he'd be up for a threesome to spice up our relationship. I even told him I knew a girl that would love to help out. He looked at me like I was a freak and told me there was no way he'd have a threesome with me and another girl.

    We haven't had sex since that night and he's been avoiding the subject ever since. The sad truth? I can't be with a guy who doesn't satisfy me in bed. I think it's fundamental for any healthy relationship.

    I know this will help us move forward. How can I convince him to do it??
    No it wont. It will help you move forward. How will watching you screw another girl help him move forward?
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    (Original post by elldee)
    What is wrong with your boyfriend? If a girl suggested a 3some to most boys they would jump at the chance (My Bf certainly would- hasn't really stopped suggesting it since day one).
    My boyfriend wouldnt. He doesnt wanna see me have sex with someone else.
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    (Original post by Antonia87)
    My boyfriend wouldnt. He doesnt wanna see me have sex with someone else.
    someone

    or some guy?

    did he specify? most guys wouldn't care about a girl as it doesn't seem like cheating to them
 
 
 
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