I'll assume you're a girl.
OP, sex (for girls anyway, but even some guys) may not be enjoyable because if there is no love and/or lust for your partner, it may be rather dull. Are you sure you love him? That's on an emotional level.
On a physical level, it's already been spelled out - your guy probably isn't good in bed so he's not stimulating your G-spot (motion in the ocean and all that) and/or you're not coming. I'm not allowed to give sex tips, but there's a pretty obvious way of making it better if your clitoris isn't being stimulated. I'll let you figure it out yourself
Dont get anything from sex :/ Watch
- 03-02-2010 00:53
- 03-02-2010 00:57
im a guy. i like sex
- 03-02-2010 01:06
I don't get THAT much out of the pleasure side of sex. My other half does everything perfectly though could not fault him at all. I think its just how some people are. I couldn't live without it though- I think its more the things like texting each other through the day making each other hornier until the point where I walk in the door and we are instantly tearing each others clothes off without saying hello lol. I think its more the mind frame you are in as oppose to just the "he should do this and I should feel like this" stuff.
(Original post by Anonymous)
- 03-02-2010 01:13
For some reason, girls with usernames like yours are just useless in bed. It doesn't feel good for you, you're usually rubbish at giving oral.. It's a complete mystery but practically fact.
Girls with Tinkerbell, fairycake, prettyinpink, angeldust and other sickeningly puke-worthy nicknames are all in the same boat.
My name happens to be the nickname given to me by my now ex boyfriend and I had nothing to do with it.
And for the record I happen to be dynamite in bed.
(Original post by WistfulSprite)
I would guess that's because those girls are younger and less sexually experienced.
- 03-02-2010 01:19
I've never had an orgasm. Ever.
But I still think sex is amazing. It's definitely about the connection and the intimacy with the other person.
- 03-02-2010 01:20
Op it took me ages to actually enjoy sex and anything else sexual with my boyfriend of nearly 3 years, he was the first guy I done anything with sexual wise but it was all great one day. I was his first too so it a bit like the blind leading the blind so to speak