Good evening everyone, well this is my first post on this website and i needed some help.
I was just searching on the internet for something and felt that i should post my problem here. I am currently a university student, starting in college...my social life has been fantastic! iv had friends all the time and thats the time i met my girlfriend, i love her, and she does as well. We have been together for 2 years now! and went to same university and same course so all of our classes were the same which brought us closer. Since the time i met her, i never had any feeling for any friends of being friends as i found a life partner, best friend, friend in my girlfriend and we both decided to be life partners which is a huge decision. Boys came into her life and i can trust her so much..no problem there.
Now, iv been with her for so long that i find myself alone and not doing anything without her as i havent had that experience in ALONG time before. Now that university is getting hard and they want to spread us around (university format) and we are in different groups for only 1 day (i know thats very sad) but only for a few hours. Me and my girlfriend talked about this and she said that she made loads of friends in that time while i was busy with old friends.
I wanna make new friends, i wanna interact with people, next week tuesday at 9am is a workgroup and i have to join a group of 5/7..
i dont know how to make friends, i dont know how to go and talk to them and i really dont know how they would feel about me as being in uni, i have always been with my gf and she has always been with me and we enjoy each others company so much.
How should i proceed with this?
I need some help, social! Watch
- Thread Starter
- 02-02-2010 20:24
- 02-02-2010 20:57
Just do the same thing as when you made your friends when you still went to uni ans school too. You can't forget how to make friends, join in with convos and be yourself. You should really try to spend time away from your gf, she might start to go out with her new friends and you could be just stuck in your room if you don't try to intercat. Even though you won't see it happeneing now, what if you broke up? You'd be soo lonely. You've spent so much time with her that you've grown away from your friends, not the most sensible thing to do! Good luck