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Girlfriend says no to BJ's............... :'( Even on my birthday.......

Reply 80

thecdon

17

perhaps she thinks you have severe nob rot?

Reply 81

SpamBa

14

Moa

I pity you fools who are saying that OP is wrong.

To OP: Dump the stupid bitch, if she does not even like BJ, I bet she is boring and awful in bed. BJ's are a standard thing and a relationship with this quirky girl is not going anywhere good if you enjoy them. See, at one point you will realise that you are the only unlucky guy who is not getting sucked off. And frustration will grow and grow. Which will lead to problems in your relationship and maybe cheating (you wouldn't say no to a girl that in contrast to your gf finds you attractive and irresistable)

Get a nice girl who will love you and who will WANT you. If you have to ASK for a blowjob clearly the girl is useless. Life is too short and BJ's are too good to be forced to put up with this ********.

My gf never has to ask me to give her head and she gets it at least twice a day. And it works both ways. And it SHOULD work both ways.

Harsh, but I am inclined towards agreeing...

Reply 82

Liverpool's Number 9

10

You know the not so secret secret about blowjobs? A lot of girls LIKE giving them. I'm lucky in that I've been with women who more than once have said they like giving them because they know it makes me happy.

She doesn't want to give one then that's fine but you have to decide how important that is to you.

More to the point you have to decide if you are willing to give oral and not receive, sounds like a bit too much of a one way street that for my liking.

If you are inclined to break it off with her then maybe first ask her wtf she won't give you one.

Reply 83

inksplodge

17

nobody should 'demand' anything.

Reply 84

neomilan

17

thecdon

perhaps she thinks you have severe nob rot?

wow that sounds absolutely disgusting
imagine if the doctor told you that, and it was a medical term that one can be diagnosed with "knob rot" that would reduce someones self esteem too 0

Gag her nuff said

Nex Angelus

i like the way you think :wink:

Im actually a bra burning feminist... but we all have our weaknesses/

Reply 87

DaveParlour

13

desertwarrior

She says it goes beyond what she wants to do... i said it was my birthday

am i in the wrong..
she demanded oral on her birthday!

She obviously doesn't like your penis, won't give you BJs and pulls out mid way through sex to revise... i think you should take the hint. Maybe its because its like a cocktail sausage?

Reply 88

SpamBa

14

9 Liverpool's Number

You know the not so secret secret about blowjobs? A lot of girls LIKE giving them. I'm lucky in that I've been with women who more than once have said they like giving them because they know it makes me happy.

That's a big part of it. Being in bed with someone should be about giving as much as receiving. Personally I really enjoy giving a blow job but even if I didn't like it so much, I think I would still do it. I'd expect to in order to get it back, and even if the physical sensation doesn't do much for you then I can't understand how you wouldn't enjoy turning your partner on that way.
I have two close friends who absolutely refuse to give oral, though they are quite happy to receive. Neither of them has held down a relationship for long and that is usually a major factor in the break up.

Reply 89

Wardy23

13

TheMeister

It seems by saying no to sucking your cock, she's blown you off.

If she does suck your cock, don't blow off!

Reply 90

LurkerintheDark

7

Jesus Christ how gutting would it be to wait ages to get a bird and then she refuses to give you a blow job. This is a sick world we're living in.

Reply 91

username91207

16

Tell her from me she's missing out :biggrin:

Reply 92

SpamBa

14

snowyowl

Tell her from me she's missing out :biggrin:

Tell her this is seconded. And if she's worried about not knowing what to do, given that half the pages on the net are porn, it's really not that hard to find out...

Reply 93

username395943

break up with her, she is being selfish, and if she is selfish abt sex...ur in big trouble ....or u can always talk to her like adults an all that and tell her how stupid it is, that if she likes ur mouth, u also wanna have a try with hers^^

Reply 94

hippieglitter

19

desertwarrior

She says it goes beyond what she wants to do... i said it was my birthday

am i in the wrong..
she demanded oral on her birthday!

She can't expect to recieve it if she won't give it. Maybe she is not very experienced at it and is nervous. I was at first, i hadn't clue what i was doing but my boyfriend was very reassuring and made sure i knew what i was doing was right. But don't do it for her if she won't do it for you.