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    I pulled this girl in a bar on sat night. We got on really well, chatted for quite a while, kissed etc. She seemed really sweet and quite taken by me. We exchanged numbers before she had to move on because her friend wanted to go elsewhere.

    I texted her later that night asking if she was still out. She said she'd gone home but really wanted to see me again. We arranged to meet on monday.

    I turned up on time and waited for about 15 mins. I gave her a text and then a call a shortly after but received no response. I decided to sack it off and head for my lecture. I then got a text from her saying that she was really sorry but she'd been called into work and suggested meeting this weekend when she'd be out.

    I havent got back to her because i just feel i'm being messed about here.

    I'm guessin shes got cold feet or shes too shy or something. I dont understand this behaviour at all; why couldnt she let me know earlier that she was working (if indeed she actually was).

    Opinions please on whats going on here? You think i should get back in touch
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    Yes I think you should. If she didn't actually like you she would have given a vague "but we should meet up at somepoint" and that be it. Meet her this weekend and see. She may have just found out that moring she had to work and forgotten to get into contact. Even if she got cold feet, I think everyone deserves a chance. Go for it this weekend, what have you got to lose?
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    I think you should maybe text her back, but try and be nonchalant about it, not act too keen. Just be like "yeah I'll be out this weekend, might see you around". Maybe. Then it sort of leaves it up to her to initiate any one to one stuff.
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    The story could well be genuine. Give her a second chance, after that, don't bother.
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    ok thanks for the responses ladies. I think its pretty poor form that she couldnt have sent me a text earlier. Maybe she's scared about meeting up.
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    Stay in touch with her without a doubt! she sounds nice and without seeing her again you can't fully be sure she purposely didn't make it. go for it
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    maybe shes afraid to meet you undrunken?
 
 
 
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